My SO met someone a few days ago, and I feel an intense urge to know what she looks like.

I dont know if its jealousy, an unhealthy need for control or genuine curiosity. Can I ask this of my SO? Can I demand it, and how/why would that be helpful?

Im pretty sure I have an undiscovered cuck kink, so that may play a big part

Note: my SO mentioned she lives in the neighbourhood. I assume she knows what I look like, so I guess I dont want to be paranoid with being recognized by someone I dont know at all (not that she would necessarily strike up a conversation, but just a look of recognition). Note2: We’re talking through our boundaries tonight, and would love some thoughts on this beforehand

Thanks in advance, I feel weird and paranoid