Looking for some feedback and maybe just to vent and getting outside opinion. My partner recently started a new relationship. She is deeply in her NRE. Honestly I'm not super happy with the relationship because it came out of nowhere and she went from just being friends with this individual to in a relationship with them. As I've been adjusting to her relationship she decided to set a schedule where she spends one of her two free weekends a month 3 hours away with this individual. Along with some of her single days off during the week. Last weekend was the first weekend she spent up with her new partner and his metamoras and roommates. When she got home Sunday night she was upset that I didn't want to l kiss and cuddle with her. I'm not withholding physical affection as some tool, I just feel hurt by the whole situation which makes me not feel like I really want to share physical intimacy with her right now. I don't know how to deal with her being upset that I'm not being physically affectionate when it is a byproduct of me feeling hurt by the whole situation.