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Is this a valid poly dynamic?
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Two people in a committed relationship with no desire to break up, and remain primary but each partner/spouse is sexually exclusive outside of the main relationship?

I guess main drivers being love and security with each other but mismatched sexual desires, labido, and sexual compatibility?

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Ok thanks so much for the advice it is greatly appreciated. And upon reflection I can see that instantly now. Always good to learn! Will make better we references going forward. Thank you πŸ™

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Thanks for your insights! We’d never control anything at all. We’re quite mature enough to allow things to breath naturally and without interference

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Yes you articulated far more perfectly than I did! Thank you :)

Yes ENM for sure with a view to it evolving poly with the right individual partners

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Sorry I meant sex only outside and reserved for other partners. not the love and commitment etc.

Surely monogamy is more encompassing than just sex?

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