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Having trouble always feeling like the second choice
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Gotten a LOT of offers to be a partner for a poly man. My problem is, although I myself am poly, I have a hard time being poly when the guy is married. It makes me feel like my love and commitment is limited in a way, and that I'll always be the lesser option compared to a marriage commitment. I'm just the girlfriend, I won't be the one enjoying my partner coming to bed with me because he sleeps in bed with his wife.

It also makes me feel so disposable. I feel like if things got bad, I'd be the one to go by default because im not the one who's married.

Ugh I need advice or opinions

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