So I’ve been single for about 4 months after my ex cheated. I feel like have settled our differences and can be friends again but not as close as we once were. I have been crushing on this one friend of mine for about 2 months and he’s really cool and nice, I talk with him easy. But, someone new came in and now I’m crushing in her too. I can’t stop thinking about a life with them in it. But number 1 wants to move to the south or Texas or something, and number 2 won’t be able to visit for years.

On top of that, what is the normal trail of events to dating two ppl? Do I ask them out at the same time or one at a time? Do I wait a few months to bring the idea up or a few weeks? what is the best way to date both of them?