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First of all thanks to all people who commented under my original post. I read all of your replies but was a bit busy and haven't found the time to reply to you all.
So idk if any of you are interested in an update on my last post, but in case, here it is.
I think I would like your opinion cause at this point I'm not sure if I'm just being an asshole for having unreasonable expectations around communication.
So to recap I had written to the guy I'm currently seeing to ask why he doesn't want to sleep with me anymore
Update: Three days later I finally (!) got a reply and his message was unintelligible. It seemed to me he was beating around the bush quite a bit. After some insisting he admitted he doesn't find me attractive anymore but he still really likes me as a person.
Now idk if I'm being an asshole but After having taken so long to reply I would have expected a bit more insight... like why is that that after so many sexual encounters, out of the blue he stopped finidng me attractive.
Did I do something wrong? Is there a part of my body that turns him off? Would he like me to do something different in bed?
No idea. And I'm pissed I have to pull words out of his mouth.
Am I being unreasonable? Should I stop pushing for answers and give up on knowing why?
EDIT: To people assuming I am acting pushy/coercive... I am venting here in order not to do it with him. I repressed this for a month and I only asked for more explanations when what he said wasn't coherent enough to make sense. I don't think I'm being pushy with him, even less so coercive
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