I'm gray asexual so I don't look for sex much. I've been sexually "relatively active" with three partners. I'm suddenly realising no one wants to have sex with me and I'm wondering if it's a coincidence, I'm being paranoid, or I'm missing something.

One of them, a mono 30yo, is low libido so we haven't been engaging in sex more than once a month, but lately even less so (probably 3 months without sex now?). Totally understandable.

Another one, a self-proclaimed poly 30yo, has basically been using me as a mouth on demand for the past year and a half and I never got more from them sexually cause they claimed I was their first (and last) and they were inexperienced and didn't know what to do to me (came out late of the closet). Being kinda asexual it never bothered me too much so I never asked for anything. Anyway, we broke up last month for other reasons.

Last one, a poly 34yo with a gf, claimed to be very sexual. We had sex a few times and then he said he wasn't interested in having sex with me anymore. He claimed he still finds me attractive but doesn't want to engage in such activities with me anymore (while he keeps having sex regilarly with his gf). At first I didn't react cause I didn't want to make a scene for something so unimportant. Bht lately I became curious so I asked him the reason via message and he hasn't replied to me in two days.

Last one night stand I had we had sex and she didn't want to see me after that even though I was really into her.

I'm very confused. I don't need sex but it's still a bit disorienting.

I know it might be hard for you to figure out with such little information, but maybe you can at least share your experiences?