I've noticed this pattern lately. For context, I am currently solo-poly. I have a boyfriend, and a girlfriend, separately. I would say I'm poly saturated in practical terms. I have no desire for another relationship. But I've been noticing this thing lately, that I feel like I want to sleep with people when anyone makes me feel safe and cared for/loved. Friends who I've never noticed any physical/visual attraction to, even. Or sometimes I just feel like I want to kiss them?? I feel like one possible way of interpreting the experience is that my brain is blurring the boundaries between friends and lovers and essentially my desire has become anarchic. It's desire specifically though. It's almost like a kink. Like it turns me on to feel safe and cared for. Probably partly because I'm the head of my own household and I don't get to experience those things so regularly. It was tough going from being married and close to my parents to being single/dating and much less close to them (they are evangelicals).... Anyway, is this some kind of poly experience I'm having?