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Newb advice on jealousy / insecurity
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I’ll try to make this somewhat brief.

Have only been dating current girl for a month, but we met around 8 months or so ago and had some sexual tension so when we popped that the relationship just took off and I really fell for her

She’s been in multiple open relationships in the past, I’ve always been interested so I even brought it up in the beginning.

She recently tells me this story of trying to sleep with this guy for 2 years and he’ll be around in July so she has to do it. Always assumed this would happen eventually but I was definitely not ready for it.

Has mentioned that a ton of guys have been hitting her up recently now that I’m in the picture, but she’s turned them away because of me. I’m sure that will change in the future

I feel like it’s bothering me, felt some jealousy and insecurities which made me realize how much I really do care about her, which is a positive.

She really adores me and I love our brief but awesome relationship, and has mentioned multiple times of bringing other women into the bedroom with us and that is FANTASTIC 😂

Do I be open to her about these feelings or just keep to myself? I don’t want to push her away

Is this jealousy something I can work on and will go away or am I just not cut out for this lifestyle?

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