I usually opt for bi or flexible guys. This was the first straight guy I tried to talk to in a while, and damn. LOL

I do find the "i wont do anything you dont want but meet at your hotel room" after you told him no sex to be gross and slightly predatory, though.

Slightly?

Even when I am looking to hookup, I won't meet a guy for the first time in the middle of the night at my hotel where I'm staying alone. Would you?

I don't "hang out online"?

We matched on Feeld and went back and forth a bit. He seemed all right. Figured I'd give him a chance and suggest a meetup.

This interaction is from after we moved to texting because we knew meeting up was on the table.

I was hanging out with a friend at a bar, and I would have enjoyed another person to interact with especially one I thought had flirting and future date / sex potential.

Also, my friend is slutty, and I thought she might want him. I never mention that to him, of course. Lol

I had tons of fun hanging out with my friend. Adding a meetup to the mix could have been fun, but my profile is clear that I don't do hookups 🤷‍♀️

I'm not reading all that. I never meant to imply that looking for casual sex is wrong. It's just not what I'm looking for. I've hooked up with guys from Tinder, but I'm not doing that right now and my profile clearly states that.

This guy was being a creep suggesting I meet him for the first time in a private location in the middle of the night, and my hotel wasn't in the nice part of town.

Interesting take 🤔

He asked if I wanted to have fun, and I said Yes. Then I clarified that the fun I was looking for would not include sex.

From where he was and what he was doing (that part of convo is not included here), he could have easily taken 30-45 minutes to come to the bar and chat me up before proceeding with his night that would end around bar closing time.

Instead of doing that, he asked me to skip meeting in public where I felt safe and meet me at my hotel where I was staying alone... I wasn't born yesterday.

This was after we moved to texting, not first contact..but, yeah, I wasn't expecting much to begin with.

We had matched 3-4 days before this and had chatted a bit but not much. I was town in, so we moved to texting and then this ...

Are you familiar with the internet slang "lol"?

I didn't include our Feeld interactions before we moved to texting last night. This wasn't first contact

When I want random sex, that's fine. But even if I wanted that, I'm not meeting you for the first time in the middle of the night at my hotel where I'm staying alone... that's just rapey...