Hello everyone! A few years ago i shared a fantasy (to involve other people into our sexlife) with my wife and after many questions and some time, we decided to give it a try.

Turns out my wife is polyamorous. She now has a boyfriend she sees 2-3 times a week.

I am having difficulties adapting to this new normal. She manages the 2 relationships very well and on paper i have 0 reasons to complain, particularly since i am the one who set all this in motion.

However, i have a permanent weight on my shoulders. My wife is very reassuring and i believe her when she says nothing has changed between us (love life and sexlife are the same if not better) because she is able to separate their couple from our couple.

But every time she spends the night at his place or go on a date i feel it in my guts. And whatever reassurance i had goes away.

The reason i dnt call it off is that we both have a stressful day-to-day and with him she can unwind and think about nothing.

So basically the reason i am here is to get help on how to no screw either relationships and stop feeling so shitty when she’s with him.

Thank you !