Hello all. My gf(28) and I (m32) have decided to open up and try poly a few months ago. We have talked on and off about it over the 9 years of being together. Earlier this year we have both made dating accounts on various apps, and entered the dating pool again. My gf is bisexual, and really only has interests in other women (which is part of the reason we have opened up). She has been relatively successful In matching, and has a few women she is getting serious with and are not bothered by our relationship. I, on the other hand, just can't find anyone. While I do make matches, and talk to other women. I bring up I am in poly relationship, then they want nothing to do with me anymore. Which also is weird considering my accounts say non-mono, but hey, who really reads anyway I guess? Is this just something I have to cope with ?

I understand looking for other poly women, but that's few and far between and I have not matched any I have seen.