Is this unethical polyamory? Am I gaslighting myself!?

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Hello poly community. Something isn’t sitting right in my gut. Been with my only other partner (besides husband) for 7 months. He recently told me him and his primary partner decided that they don’t want to “fall in love” with other partners. 🚩?

My philosophy of love is to love others and I I don’t need them to love me back and express it. I just think love is so fun and fulfilling as I try to love myself more. But something about being in a poly relationship where love is TAKEN OFF the table just is odd.

Something about THEM deciding and then him telling me sits weirdly. What do y’all think?

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