Finally opened up about my dating preference. I always tiptoed around the topic the more we dated. . I was open about it at first, was straight forward about it. More we got to know and love each other she got cooked get cause I meant more. She was supportive until it got too real. We backed down cause I knew she needed more trust and understanding. Tonight I opened up about everything to her and she listened and told me as long as I Don't stop loving her and treating her the way I do now, Then she will be okay with it once more and a better position. For good reason though. We are both very poor position and should not even try this right now. But it's in movement and she's actually starting to catch on to where i'm coming from. I'm starting to feel understood. I'm starting to get thru to get that this is just where I'm at nowadays with all of it. One on one just don't do it. I want more love and connection with people. I realized couple years ago, why live a jealous and fearful lifestyle if I can be more open? But my question is if your significant other wasn't comfortable with it at first, what challenges did you go thru and how did you get thru them?