Being new to poly dynamic my partner and I don’t use condoms and as of now I prefer him and I to use them outside of us with our other partners. Is that fair to ask and if I say I’m not comfortable with it yet should he push the issue after I say simply say “ I am just not comfortable yet.”? Then, when I mentioned to him that I didn’t appreciate him, pushing the question, he asked why again and I said I am just not comfortable, especially with health concerns there’s a lot to take in with that. He replies with “there are cures and other things to fix those issues of diseases”. Should the conversation have not just ended when I said I am not comfortable and the answer be taken as no? And should I be concerned about this pressure and push?