A few fairly recent ones that pop to mind are one in which folks were arguing about whether or not it's okay to wear a new outfit on a date with a secondary if you haven't yet worn that outfit for your primary partner. And related, whether or not it's okay to wear the same lingerie for each partner, and if so, only wearing lingerie for the partner you specifically had in mind when you purchased the lingerie.

And most recently, someone vehemently arguing that it is unethical to block partners on social media, even if they're aware and agreeing, regardless of the reasons for why you're blocking them - apparently having healthy boundaries and respecting one another's privacy is now unethical.

Let's hear some of the crazy dumb shit you've seen around the polyam community.