I'm part of a few poly/ENM groups and I feel like an overwhelming amount of the content is people coming from a mono context asking about poly. Or full pendulum swing to the sub being exclusively about solopoly. I'm not trying to hate, I get that folks opening up need advice and everyone thinks their situation is unique, but I'm just real tired of constantly reading about monogamy woes in a poly group ya know?

Anyone have recommendations for other poly/ENM subs that have a higher ratio of posts from actively poly people who are largely past the opening phase (if that's even a context they ever had - cus don't even get me started on the we didn't all start poly in a long term mono relationship rant 🙃)

Edit: I appreciate the sentiment of folks wanting me to post or asking what I'm wanting to see here, but it's not my intention or desire to change this sub. It's clearly helpful for many as is and that's great. I'm just wanting a different balance sometimes and figured some here would have ideas.