Hey all! I am a female from Canada, early forties. I have always been interested in having multiple partners. I do not mean sex. Although, that's a great bonus! I have mostly been in monogamous relationships, but I have been the third with a number of couples. I have so much love to give and I often feel like being with one partner, I just need more. I have a really hard time expressing my thoughts and feelings. I would love to connect with other people who may be able to help me navigate this.

So I guess my question is, where do you go to find people who are similar? I am on Feeld. My experience so far has been that there are a number of men who are interested, and in either poly or ENM relationships, but once the female partner finds out, they are no longer allowed to speak with me. So that leaves me super confused.

I just don't know where to go, what to do, how to start. Someone please help me!

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I should add, I am brand new to this site. A male friend of mine introduced me to this! So I apologize if I am slow to respond, I am still learning.