Breakups that leave you saying "Love isn't enough" are the hardest. And this is coming from someone who ended an abusive relationship with someone who sexually assaulted me.

I'd rather break up with a toxic asshole than have to break up with someone I love dearly. I'd rather break up with someone because they don't respect me than because they don't respect themselves.

My ex is the kindest person I've ever met. That's the problem. Their lack of boundaries in their other relationships hurt me, over and over again. But I persisted because I really truly love them, and I did everything I could to help remedy the situation.

But after having your heart repeatedly broken over and over again, you have to move on.

I genuinely hope they are happy with their other partner, because they've gone to great lengths to keep that relationship. I suspect that isn't the case. And that makes me sad.