I've been in this fully open poly relationship with one of my partners for about 6 months now. This has been the best experience of my life so far, but sometimes I feel insecure. Let me explain.

Sometimes, I notice that my partner is constantly seeking, or on a "hunt" for a new sexual, dominant partner(s). This makes me feel like I'm lacking something, as a dominant, and I'm not able to give her what she fully desires.

Of course, I'm aware that from a poly perspective, one person cannot fulfill all your desires and fantasies, but I can't shake this feeling from my head that maybe I'm lacking something, or I'm not a good enough partner.

Sometimes, I get really competitive. I see that she's talking to multiple people and going on multiple dates and booty calls per week, which makes me do that same thing. I hook up with multiple people and suddenly get overwhelmed with expectations and crawl back into my shell.

Anyone experiencing the same things here?