Hi guys! I've written maaany posts in 2 months time abiut my situation. My gf (22F) cheated on me (22F) with our mutual friend. They had EA, then kissed a few times in office (in which they stay alone). It's been though 2 months. She's in love with him and he is in love with her. They both are in mono relationships. But both would like to be poly and be in a relationship with each other. I try to be understanding of my gf, even if it hurts. And a few days ago, she broke down and said that she feels so sad, because she feels she has so much love to give (to people romantically) and she can't. I'm heartbroken, because I'm not comfortable with non-monogamy for now, but I told her that if that's what she wants, we can break up and she can pursue this. She always says that she wants to stay in monogamous relationship with me for now, but she was happy for the last 4 years and having feelings for someone else is something new for her. I know that she also loves me so much, but I'm scared that she will stay and be unhappy.

I need advice - do you think that I'm making a good choice staying with her? I don't want her to feel limited, but I also know that poly is off the table for me for a while (maybe even forever - I have no idea). And I also don't want to be hurt if she leaves me in a few months while we're trying to rebuild our relationship.