Hi all! I've (32f) been dating my partner for a few years now and we started opening things up and exploring ENM earlier this year. It's not super unfamiliar territory to me as I used to date couples back when I was single and feel very excited by and comfortable with the lifestyle. My partner is also super supportive.

However - I am terrible at making the first move on women. I have a huge crush on a girl I met at a disco a couple of weeks ago. She and I have hung out a few times and I know she's queer / has been with people in ENM relationships before / but she also mentioned she's ready for something more serious and I don't know if she herself is ENM or poly. I'm going to Paris for a month and half-jokingly said she should come visit since I have a beautiful apartment... but she actually wants to come now and we're planning on spending like a week together in Europe.

I have no idea if she's interested in me as more than a friend but I'm like...really into her and don't want to make this weird if she's traveling with me, but also... it sounds potentially so romantic and fun? Any tips for testing the vibe or making a move without it making her uncomfortable? THANK YOU!