I saw someone else mention it here. I think I get what it means. I feel like it’s fairly common for platonic relationships.

But I think I’m going through this with a sexual/romantic relationship as well and maybe someone can clarify what it is and what to do if you feel it happening to you. And maybe how to avoid doing it yourself.

I met someone months ago. Went really well. Might have gone too fast. Which I understand could have been an issue. In the last month it sort of felt like things were fading from their side so I brought it up and they denied it. However, I’ve tried backing off and this person has sort of just kept in contact. Expressed not wanting me to disappear. But also shows little interest in making plans to get together or progress the relationship. I’m pretty blunt and straightforward so this has been a turnoff. But I do like this person.

Does this sound like I’m being backburnered? They are otherwise nice and caring. I just feel like I’m being kept around a bit. Not being slow ghosted but not being invested in either. Heart emojis but no dates.

EDIT: Just to be clear, we’ve been on dates. I’ve met their friends. We’ve shared a lot of close, intimate details and grew pretty close. Which is why this is a little confusing.