I recently spoke with my partners (m20, nb26) about possibly seeking a new partner for various reasons, both seemed ok with it at first but my male partner was just trying to be ok with it even though the idea of me seeking another partner really upset him. For reference my male partner i would consider my primary and my non binary partner my secondary i thought that he didnt consider me his primary as i am newest to the relationship (he is also with my nb partner and a male partner) i thought his male np was his primary and me and my nb partner were secondaries, apparently that is not the case however, he expressed having more feelings towards me than other partners. Im not really sure how to take this, he asked for time to think about me finding a new partner and i told him to take as much time as he needs. I always felt a stronger connection to him but in a way i feel like i have come into the relationship and have overstepped my place in the relationship which im afraid could hurt my nb partner and his male partner while i also like i could possibly be the start of some bad arguments in the future also im worried his male partner and my nb partner could get really mad at me, my nb partner was the first to ask me out and his male partner was the first partner he had do im worried the change in relationship dynamic wiĺl set them off in some way.