Before you judge me, the relationship started out as poly. Well it was suppose to be. Once his wife started seeing how close him and I were she became super jealous and told him to call it off. I believe she faked the whole thing just thinking it would keep him from cheating. He is VERY honest with her and told her he would not stop talking to me. He will not lie to her and yet she’s upset now because he cannot and will not just “get rid of me”. He wants to be with me but also is very open and doesn’t want to leave his wife. I don’t want a traditional relationship so that’s fine with me. Am I wrong? Should I drop him since she has the issue? He feels betrayed by her and feels it’s unfair. He is not a cheater and didn’t even sleep with me until after she knew about me and told him it was fine. He refused! I love him…. But I wonder should I stop seeing him and call the whole thing off? I’m upset as well, as I liked her a lot.