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An r4r (Redditor for Redditor) community for Philly. Replacement for the previous r/Phillyr4r, which has closed down. Whether you're looking for platonic or non-platonic friends, gaming buddies, online friends, soulmates, travelmates, smoking buddies, activity partners, friends with benefits, or casual encounters, this is the place to find and seek.

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Updated Dec 27, 2024
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Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
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Include your age, tag, #location, and what you're looking for in the title

Please include your age and TAG in your title.
E.g. 22 [f4m], [m4f], [f4f], [m4m], [t4f], [t4m], [m4r], [f4r], [t4r].

Example Title: 22[f4m] #Center City. Seeking a hiking partner

Posts missing a location or without a descriptive title may be removed! Be specific: use a neighborhood, #City of Philly, or #Greater Philly as appropriate; not just #Philly

Tagging Legend:

M– Male/Man

F– Female/Woman

MTF– Transwoman/male to female

FTM– Transman/female to male

A– Anyone/Redditor

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No exchanges for money or goods

Exchanges for money, goods, or services, are strictly prohibited. This includes. and is not limited to, any of the "sugar" lifestyle ads, offers for free trips, lessons, tutoring, webpage design, gaming, cam performances, etc. If you are doing something in exchange for something else, it will most likely fall in this rule. Contact the mods for clarification or questions.

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All participants must be 18 or older

This community is for people who are 18 years of age or older only. If you are under eighteen, do not post, comment, or respond to posts. Users who misrepresent their age by claiming to be over 18 or 21 when they are not, will be banned.

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No exchanges for money, goods, or services

Exchanges for money, goods, or services, are strictly prohibited. This includes. and is not limited to, any of the "sugar" lifestyle ads, offers for free trips, lessons, tutoring, webpage design, gaming, cam performances, etc. If you are doing something in exchange for something else, it will most likely fall in this rule. Contact the mods for clarification or questions.

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No usernames or personal info

No personal information, including but not limited to phone number, email addresses, external profiles, surveys, and forms. This includes usernames for any service, of any kind. You may mention a preferred messaging service in your post, but must not directly ask people to reply with their usernames.

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Don't post more than once a week

Only one post is allowed per 7-day period, no exceptions (other than mod-removed posts). Posts made more frequently than this will be automatically removed. Anyone found to be circumventing this will be permanently banned.

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Any harassment or publicly calling someone a fake/scam will result in a permaban, no exceptions

Reports of fakes/scammers must go ONLY to the mods. Any such claims that are made in posts/comments without evidence will result in a permaban for harassment. Please report any harassment, in public or private, so that we can ban the offenders to protect others.

Someone changing their mind, ghosting, or not sending a pic doesn't make them a catphish; please do message the mods if you have actual proof, otherwise block them and move on.

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Strictly Clean/SFW-tagged posts may not mention or reference any adult language or activities

Posts that aren't tagged as NSFW, using either the NSFW tag button or the Explicit Activities/NSFW flair option, must not mention or reference any adult language or activities, including using vague or ambiguous language. If you're seeking adult activities you are required to tag your post as NSFW.

Likewise, comments on SFW posts must also be SFW; do not respond to SFW posts with explicit language or acts!

Attempting to circumvent this requirement will result in a ban.

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