r/dating_advice

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this sub is for advice about specific dating situations not general debates. posts about relationships longer than 6 months post go to r/relationship_advice or if you are married post to r/marriage

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to r/dating_advice by Traditional-Cup-3752

13 hours ago

Someone save me please

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to r/dating_advice by darkhoe_

13 hours ago

View Post: Hindu woman I’m dating thinks there should be consequences for anyone who does anything offensive against any religion. Am I reading too much into this?

Hindu woman I’m dating thinks there should be consequences for anyone who does anything offensive against any religion. Am I reading too much into this?

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to r/dating_advice by throwaway94067

13 hours ago

How do I tell this girl...

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to r/dating_advice by thurtleboy

13 hours ago

Hate that I feel like the girl I’m dating is ‘easy’.

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to r/dating_advice by Extension-Slide-4480

13 hours ago

Am I wrong for wanting to spend time with family

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to r/dating_advice by thurtleboy

13 hours ago

Need some advice, don’t know how I feel about the girl I’m seeing.

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to r/dating_advice by Fit_Row_8376

13 hours ago

Is it okay to text a girl who was involved in a car accident with me ?

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to r/dating_advice by Mobile_Stress_6779

13 hours ago

Recently I found out the guy I used to hook up with has been lying the whole time.

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to r/dating_advice by Much-Blueberry-4402

13 hours ago

am i making the same mistake?

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to r/dating_advice by Real_Finance7666

13 hours ago

Feels like I took 10 steps backwards in healing/self-improvement

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to r/dating_advice by hsgdusheb

13 hours ago

asking a man what his favorite superhero is can tell u a lot about a man.

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to r/dating_advice by Prudent-Skirt8751

13 hours ago

Does he actually like me or?

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to r/dating_advice by Ill_Zone_5019

13 hours ago

Help here

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to r/dating_advice by AnnualOdd9199

13 hours ago

Not even sure if I should tell her

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to r/dating_advice by Tangerine_Starlight

13 hours ago

Wife and husband open marriage and I’m the guinea pig

in Guinea

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to r/dating_advice by Pina-Colada18

13 hours ago

The guy I’ve seen for only 2 dates is being way too keen and I’m uncomfortable about it

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to r/dating_advice by Sad-Hornet4205

13 hours ago

Guy friend always pays

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to r/dating_advice by ToddR33

13 hours ago

Ok I (21m) asked a girl (21f) out and now I'm wondering how long I should wait before losing hope

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to r/dating_advice by Emotional_Dream_4471

13 hours ago

What should i do if GF forgot our plans to go out with friend?

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to r/dating_advice by FeelingComfortable10

13 hours ago

Girl I’m seeing does not want a relationship

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to r/dating_advice by Jumpy_Ad_1457

13 hours ago

Can‘t date my crush because of my best friend?

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to r/dating_advice by Past_Mulberry6773

13 hours ago

Ex might have had an STI?

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to r/dating_advice by Dirlei67

13 hours ago

Mixed Signals or Just Busy? Navigating Interest During Exam Season

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to r/dating_advice by Parking_Cell_9748

13 hours ago

How do I make out with my first gf??

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to r/dating_advice by Federal-Ad2075

13 hours ago

Getting a bf months before graduation?

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