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Subreddit Rules
Hate speech/slurs
No racism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism, sexism, or other slurs of hate towards any group.
Spam = posting too often.
You cannot post more than once per 7 days.
Posting too often.
You cannot post more than once per 7 days.
Body shaming
No shaming others for their bodies
Non-con pictures/posting on behalf of someone else
Don't post images of your wife/fwb/sub etc. Don't post posts looking to "surprise" your partner. Proof of consent and mod approval is required BEFORE posting.
No commerce, solicitation, advertising, or scam behavior.
Exchanging for money, goods, or services is strictly prohibited on this subreddit.
No Commerce or advertsing
Exchanges for money, goods, or services are strictly prohibited - as is advertising for these. This includes reselling tickets, fundraising, OnlyFans, massages, camming or sex work of any kind.
Non-Chicago area post.
Travelers may receive exceptions - check with mods on how to post without getting dinged.
No Commerce
Exchanges for money, goods, or services are strictly prohibited
Body shaming or ableism.
No shaming others for their bodies or other physical attributes. Pro-tip: If you're not interested in someone, you don't have to say it - just don't talk to them.
Everything must be consensual.
Donāt post photos of your wife, FWB, sub, etc. Donāt send unsolicited private photos. Donāt post looking to āsurpriseā your partner. Proof of consent and mod approval is required BEFORE posting.
No harassing because of someone's preferences
You don't have to like what others are into, as long as it's consensual.
Hate speech is not allowed.
This includes but is not limited to racism, antisemitism, xenophobia, homophobia, biphobia, transphobia, fatphobia, ableism, sexism, or other bullying/slurs/oppression/rudeness. Pro-tip: if youāre not interested in someone, you donāt have to say itājust donāt talk to them.
Posting too often; more than once in 24 hours
Posting too often; more than once per 7 days
No harassing due to someoneās preferences.
You donāt have to like what others are into, as long as itās consensual.
If you're not into it - don't respond or comment.
Contains personal information
No posting, sharing, or even hinting at an email address, Kink / Snap / IG / any Social Media usernames, phone numbers, etc. Save them for your PMās and not in your posts or comments.
No posting personal information.
No posting, sharing, or even hinting at contact information like phone numbers, usernames, email addresses, etc. Send them in your PMs only.
No non-Chicago posts
No posts if you do not reside in the Chicagoland or surround areas. Travelers are the exception.
No non-Chicagoland posts
No posts if you do not reside in the Chicagoland or surround areas. See the map in the sidebar for boundaries. Travelers are the exception.
No Predatory behaviour
Using ambiguous language or coercive methods to prey on young or well-intentioned community members.
No spamming or scam behaviour
You will be banned.
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