Moderators
Subreddit Rules
No underage users or content. If you practiced kink/CGL/BDSM while underage, you will be banned.
This subreddit is 18+ only. Do not post content involving anyone under the age of 18 in any context. You will be banned.
Do not describe any sort of underage participation.
Do not give any minors the "okay" to participate in kink/ageplay while underage. This includes sexual and non-sexual dynamics.
If you practiced kink/CGL/BDSM while underage, you will be banned. This also includes any talk of participating in kink/a power exchange dynamic underage, even if you are of age now.
No underage users or content.
This subreddit is 18+ only. Do not post content involving anyone under 18 in any context.
Do not encourage any minors to participate in any kink while underage. This includes sexual and non-sexual dynamics.
Do not describe any sort of underage participation, even if you think it adds relevance (including any talk of participating in kink/a power exchange dynamic) even if you are of age now.
Any violation of this will result in immediate ban.
1 post every 72 hours.
If you post more than once per 72 hours, your posts will be removed.
If this rule is continuously broken, you may face a ban.
1 post every 5 days.
If you post more than once per 5 days, your posts will be removed. You must wait 5 full days after your approved post to post again (on the 6th day).
THIS INCLUDES self-deleting and we do not allow this as a workaround.
If this rule is continuously broken, you may face a ban.
1 post every 7 days.
One post per 7 days (168 hours) only. Time zone is irrelevant, as this is a timer countdown.
THIS INCLUDES self-deleting and we do not allow this as a workaround.
If this rule is continuously broken you will face a ban.
All personal ads must have relevancy to CGL. Posts should consist of 70% SFW and 30% NSFW.
This list is not exhaustive.
We will remove your post if:
It has no relevance to CGL/doesn't talk about the dynamic.
It reads like a smutty short story.
You're solely looking for FWBs/hookups/no relevance to CGL.
It's mainly a list of kinks and no details regarding you as a person or what you value in a partner.
All personal ads must have relevancy to CGL. Posts should consist of 70% SFW/30% NSFW or 100% SFW.
This list is not exhaustive.
We will remove your post and/or ban your account if:
It has no relevance to CGL/doesn't talk about the dynamic. It must mention the dynamic in some way. (key words: Daddy/Mommy/little/baby/abdl/power exchange/punishment(s)/rules etc)
It reads like a smutty short story.
You're solely looking for FWBs/hookups/no relevance to CGL.
It's mainly a list of kinks and no details regarding you as a person or what you value in a partner.
All posts must have relevancy to CGL.
We will remove your post and/or ban your account if:
Post is not 70% SFW and 30% NSFW or 100% SFW.
It doesn't talk about the CGl dynamic. Post must clearly state what you're looking for in regard to the dynamic. Must use dynamic specific words and not just substituting Daddy for Dom, or little for sub.
You're solely looking for FWBs/Hookups.
It reads like a smutty short story.
Just a list of kinks.
Do not kink erase. This includes non-sexual and sexual kink.
While we allow the discussion of age regression, we do not allow any kink-erasing nor encouragement/discussion regarding anything underage.
Post titles must follow the r4r format: Age [R4R] #Location - Title.
To help keep the flair system user friendly, we ask that all personal ads follow the R4R format.
This means that the poster must state their age, location, and should include details about themselves in their post.
If this is not followed on multiple occasions, we may issue a ban.
1 post per 24 hours.
If you post more than once per 24 hours, your most recent post will be removed. If this rule is continuously broken, you may face a ban.
Post titles must follow the r4r format.
To help keep the flair system user friendly, we ask that all personal ads follow the R4R format.
Example: Age [R4R] #Location - Title.
This means that the poster must state their age, location, and should include details about themselves in their post.
If this is not followed on multiple occasions, we may issue a ban.
No pictures or videos in the subreddit.
Do not post pictures or videos of yourself in this subreddit. Instead, privately PM them to another user when necessary.
Do not have any media links on posts.
Do not post pictures, videos or audio of yourself in this subreddit. Do not post links to any off site page. Instead, privately PM them to another user when necessary.
Do not post sensitive/personal information, such as usernames for Discord, Kik, Snapchat, etc.
Do not post sensitive/personal information, such as your full name, address, phone number, or social media username(s).
Instead, privately DM it to another user when necessary.
Please also keep in mind that we are not liable for anything that can happen when sharing sensitive information online, so please share with caution.
Do not post sensitive/personal/online information.
Do not post sensitive/personal/online information, such as your full name, address, phone number, or social media username(s). Including but not limited to, email, discord ID, gaming usernames, KIK/WHATSAPP, Telegram, Instagram, TIKTOK etc.
Instead, privately DM it to another user when necessary.
Please also keep in mind that we are not liable for anything that can happen when sharing sensitive information online, so please share with caution.
No toxic ads. (Affairs, abuse, illegal activities, unicorn/harem hunting, predatory behavior, etc.)
We do not allow any personal ads that imply they are open to having an affair (or are cheating on a SO).
Any users found attempting to cheat, cheating, FWB, unicorn/harem hunting, or displaying predatory behavior will be banned.
We also do not allow any sort of ads that imply dangerous behavior (sexually/physically/emotionally abuse) without CNC in the title or description.
Even if fictional/purely fantasy-oriented, we ask that users do not discuss wants or desires for illegal activities.
No toxic ads.
No personal ads that imply they are open to having an affair (or are cheating on a SO).
No users looking for FWB, unicorn/harem hunting, or displaying predatory behavior.
No ads that imply dangerous behavior (sexual/physical/emotional abuse) without CNC in the title or description.
Do not discuss wants or desires for illegal activities, even if fictional/purely fantasy-oriented.
Violation of any of the above will result in a ban.
Be civil.
All users are expected to be civil when posting here.
Transphobia, homophobia, racism, ableism, harassment, kink-shaming, callout posts, offensive/derogatory comments, sexism, and bigotry will not be tolerated.
Be civil. Transphobia, homophobia, racism, ableism, bigotry, sexism, etc will not be tolerated.
All users are expected to be civil when posting here.
Transphobia, homophobia, racism, ableism, harassment, kink-shaming, callout posts, offensive/derogatory comments, sexism, and bigotry will not be tolerated.
No findoms, content sellers, paypal/cashapp/etc in bio, solicitation, groupchat ads, shop promoters+
This list is not exhaustive!
We do not allow:
Group chat ads(Discord, Telegram, Kik, etc.)
Having an Amazon wishlist, cashapp, PayPal, etc. in
your profile's bio.
Advertising cam shows.
Asking for donations.
Asking for someone to buy items.
Findoms.
Promoting a shop.
Offering promotion codes.
Any sort of "professional" domination/submission.
Anything that leads to a user paying for some sort of service.
Any links that lead to off-site content anywhere on your Reddit account.
No soliciting of goods or services.
We do not allow posts involving or linked in your bio (or the bio of social media on profile) the following:
Having an Amazon wishlist, Kofi, Venmo, Cashapp, PayPal, etc.
OnlyFans, JustForFans, Fansly etc.
Paid relocation.
Group chat ads (Discord, Telegram, Kik, etc.)
Promoting a shop or offering promo codes.
"Professional" domination/submission.
Anything that leads to a user paying for some sort of service.
Any links that lead to off-site content anywhere on your Reddit account.
No content sellers, solicitation, group chat ads, or shop promoters.
We do not allow any group chat ads.
We also ask that all content sellers, shop promoters, etc, use an unaffiliated account to participate here.
Examples of what we do not allow include but are not limited to: advertising cam shows, group chat ads, selling nude photos, asking for donations, having an Amazon wishlist, promoting a shop, offering promotion codes, etc, or any links that lead to off-site content anywhere on your Reddit account.
No findoms, content sellers, financial transactions, solicitation, groupchat ads, shop promoters etc
This list is not exhaustive!
We do not allow:
Group chat ads(Discord, Telegram, Kik, etc.)
Advertising cam shows.
Selling nude photos.
Asking for donations.
Asking for someone to buy items.
Findoms.
Having an Amazon wishlist.
Promoting a shop.
Offering promotion codes.
Any sort of "professional" domination/submission.
Anything that leads to a user paying for some sort of service.
Any links that lead to off-site content anywhere on your Reddit account.
No gone wild accounts
We no longer allow accounts that participate on non-BDSM related subreddits (aka gonewild-style subs).
No gone wild accounts.
We don't allow any accounts that participate on non-BDSM related subreddits (aka gonewild-style subs).
This includes any sub that is primarily nude photos just to post nudes even if it is a 'BDSM' labeled gone wild.
Moderator discretion
Moderator discretion.
Please be aware that moderators have the discretion to enforce and interpret rules as needed to ensure a respectful and safe environment for everyone.
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