Hey there! I hope you're doing well!

Introduction

I'm a 22 year old little from Utrecht, Netherlands. As the title suggests, I'm looking for a caregiver to have playdates with on the regular and fully be my little self. Lately being little felt a bit lonely as I have no one to share this side of me with...

I'm in a loving relationship with my boyfriend (who even encouraged me to make this post!!) but he is uncomfortable with the idea of being a caregiver for me, so that's why I'm now scowering the wider world for my sir/ma'am! (title up for discussion)

So basically I'm searching for a caregiver to do ageplay with in a platonic way. Also I speak both Dutch (native language) and English.

About me

The first thing about me you'll probably notice is that I am tall. 192cm haha... bit far from the usual stereotype of a little probably, but I still managed to find a cute onesie and overalls to make the killer little outfit.

Big me is a big nerd. I know a lot about computers and software and math and all those big thinky subjects :P I also like roleplay of the non-kinky kind like Dungeons and Dragons. Boardgames are really fun too! I would probably also really like playing them in littlespace, but I haven't had the chance to yet.

Speaking of little me... I don't really have a "little age" like some people I've seen, I just have a few elements from a variety of age ranges lol. I use a pacifier, and I sound pretty baby-ish but I do still have a bigger mental capacity that you'd expect of most toddlers haha. Honestly, I think the combination of nerding about computers and algorithms and then talking like a baby with a pacifier while doing so is really incredibly cute!! but you'd have to be the judge of that of course :p

How I think it would work

Like I said at the top, I'm not looking for a relationship. Perhaps you could call what I'm looking for "benefits with friends" haha, where the "befenits" are you can take care of me once in a while and I hope that we also just become good friends outside of that. Most of the time I'm not in littlespace, it would probably be entirely contained to the playdates (tho I have been told I also chat pretty cutesy idk)

We would probably meet up for coffee or something for the first time, just to get to know each other first. I don't really drop into littlespace with any stranger I meet and I hope you're not expecting that either... Then do a first actual playdate later down the line if we're both comfortable.

In terms of frequency, I am somewhat unsure of what I would like. I haven't really been taken care of in this way many times, and all times were really special. Maybe I'd overload from too much caretaking!! But I'm hoping at least once a month if not more frequent.

I could maybe host the playdates at my apartment, but somewhere else would be preferable. I don't think my boyfriend would be comfortable to be in the house during a playdate so it'd have to be scheduled if he happens to be away.

Closing thoughts

I'm honestly unsure if there's much enthousiasm for what I'm suggesting here, I know most posts on this subreddit are about finding a partner with this kink, but if you're still here reading this you might be what I'm looking for! Perhaps there's more enthousiasm for this than I'm expecting because organising playdates platonically sounds more accesible to me than say, trying to date and find a life-long partner.

I hope to talk to you soon!!

~alittledutch~