I've been a Dom for a number of years and have been in a few D/s relationships. Some online, some offline. I've grown over the years, found my sadistic streak, discovered my love of control. The joy of hearing a sub scream for more as she experiences both pleasure and pain. The exstacy she feels as her eyes roll in the back of her head and she struggles against her bonds.
I like to think the rules I impose are based around fairness and consent. I don't force my will upon someone unless they agree to it but I don't see the need to hold back once they do. You can say no, you can have your own life, your own job, time to yourself, your independent streak. But my time is important to me and once everything else is out of the way, I will take full advantage of what's mine. You can have your own time to deal with real life but when it's time to be on your knees, I expect you to kneel. Whether I fuck you, break you or just abuse you for the fun of it, that's my choice not yours.
It's not like you won't have a say in what you like or don't like. In fact I encourage you to talk about yourself, your life, your kinks, your emotions, your needs, your secrets. If you're worried or scared let me know so I can assuage those fears. If you need more just say it. Even if I own you, you have the right to speak your mind and share your thoughts. Just like I have the right to mark you and mold you into a slut that's needs to be owned and used by me to feel fulfilled.
I'll always ease you in to test your limits and take you beyond them as we go along.
I want to have fun. Explore our kinks together. Use each other when we both need release or want to try something new. If we become friends or more, that's a plus.
What's the point of breaking someone down if there's nothing to break? The more the prey struggles the more of a predator I can be. I like getting inside someone's head. I like knowing who they are, what makes them tick, their deepest needs and fears. I also enjoy overpowering someone, training their body to learn that there's no escape from me.
Kinks include orgasm control, overstimulation, breathplay, biting, impact play, restraints, hypnosis, among others.
Prefer chatting over Skype/discord but Reddit is fine to start with. Your picture gets mine.
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