Dominant by nature but relaxed, affectionate, and playful with subs. I keep a balance between a dark sense of humor and an overall positive outlook, and always make time to listen, encourage, and challenge the people in my life. Otherwise most of my free time is spent reading, writing, taking online classes, and chilling at the beach.

I'm a huge fan of older films like Chitty Chitty Bang Bang or Some Like it Hot, Charlie Chaplin and Peter Sellers. Its always fun to see what has changed over the years, and what hasn't. I'm trained in couples dancing, from Salsa and Rumba to Waltz and Tango. Recently enjoying rereading dystopian books like Brave New World and The Road. I have a martial arts background in Hapkido, Krav Maga, Juijitsu, and Boxing. Music is mostly jazz, classical, electrofunk (like Goldfish or Caravan Palace). Favorite animal is a Tiger.

Obsessive curiosity about new things strikes often, and I like to see where it leads. I’ve even found myself teaching classes on speech, history, math, and economics. I visited Europe, and studied at Cambridge in the UK.

I believe first and foremost in common humanity, but my experience has shown me that on an individual level humans are unique and endlessly complex. Labels and heuristics can be helpful, but its sometimes easy to get caught up in them and limit our perspective. Each of us is much more than the sum of words that define us.

That said, here’s a bit about me. I’m 31 years old, 5'9, 155 lbs and lean, DDF. Myers Briggs personality is ESTP, love language is physical touch. Pisces Sun, Aires Moon, Scorpio Rising. I’ve been active at the munches and events in LA for a few years, and a regular at local dungeons before they closed down. My style as a Dom is best described as Sensual Sadist, because I love giving massages, cuddles, and intense pain. The full range of responses from a sub is gold to me.

What about you? You are DDF (420 is fine), STD tested, Covid Vaccinated, passionate about your interests and able to talk about them. You’re intelligent and notice lots of interesting patterns in people and the world. You have a creative mind and avid imagination, letting you explore endless possibilities. You are honest about yourself, your values, your experiences, your wants, and your expectations.

You feel like you’re sometimes full of contradictions; in public you are polite, loving, kind, warm, compassionate to those around you, hard working and independent. But in private you are an introverted nerd with a dirty mind and high libido who wants nothing more than to submit and be owned. To really experience this right you want a trusted partner who is non judgmental and patient, not pressuring, doesn’t make you feel afraid, embarrassed, or ashamed.

You want nothing more than to show me who you are so that I can take joy in your mind, body, and soul. You love being more physically close in private, and want to feel strong hands squeezing you tight. You’re eager to learn about your Dom’s unique personality as I break down your walls and build you back up with care. Your submission and vulnerability show you just how tough you are, make you feel strong, confident, powerful, complete, at ease. You look forward to feeling the rest of the world drift away as we focus on one another, and you can find comfort in me.

What I’m looking for between us is respect, honesty, intimacy, trust, connection, and devotion. Without these the dynamic doesn’t mean much and doesn’t last. I want us both to feel that connection while we talk, to feel free and open with nothing to hide.

Outside the bedroom: I want to find out what excites you the most, what makes your eyes light up at the thought. What songs and films hit you the hardest, what you fear most, what you regret most, what accomplishments you’re proud of, what goals you still want to reach, and what you still hope for when life gets you down. I want to hear what you can’t share with anyone else in the world.

Inside the Bedroom: I’ve tried a lot and enjoy a wide range of kinks. Love spanking more than my implements, sensory deprivation, wordless direction and response, orgasm control with hitachi, ddlg but not ageplay, roleplay up to and including CNC. I prioritize safety plus open and honest communication, so there are no surprises. Before a scene I always establish likes and dislikes, check in during (green/yellow/red), and for aftercare give lots of affection and praise before a warm shower together.

You will yearn to feel my eyes undressing you before we even start. You will relish the collar on your neck as you look up at me, knowing you are a treasured possession. You will tremble as you are manhandled, the hair at the base of your skull clenched into my fist. You will feel every sharp breath and long exhale throughout your body, letting out cute moans and whimpers as you are used. You will love to cuddle up close to my warmth and drift off to sleep with a smile. You will enjoy feeling those bruises as you wake up to admire the colors, and that jolt throughout the day when you had forgotten, bringing your mind back to me each time. You will fondly remember every moment until you just can't wait to come back for more.

Show me how you love to be teased all day and to tease me back. Spread your legs and rub to one orgasm after another as you see me hard in front of you. Beg for it, and know that you will earn it. Be my good girl who gets wet while sucking and looking into my eyes, until I pin you down, thrust deep inside, and stop you at the edge over and over before letting you cum. Be mine, and you might get exactly what you wished for.

If you like what you’ve read, then lets chat. Not interested in sexting, or sending nudes, or online play, or being a penpal. This is for real, so I’d rather hear about your favorite spot to get coffee and go for a walk. Tell me what movies you’ve seen more than once, since you're probably someone who keeps going after you finish the first time.

For everyone who is reading this, I wish you success and happiness in everything you do. There’s always someone out there for each of us, and all we need to do is find them.