Hey there lovely fellas, I hope you are doing well. Itās going to be a long post, so just bear with me. Why Iām writing this? Yes there is a very specific reason, I had to let go my submissive recently and this thing has totally messed me up. I was emotionally attached to her but then life happened. I just want those feelings and experience back in my life, I want to be loved again, I want to love someone again.
Me & BDSM:
Iām 25 years old from India, an engineer by profession. I am currently in gujarat but orignally from north India. I am around 5ā7ā, wear specs, and have a lean body. I have a beard and I just love it. I love music, binge watching and traveling. So, I came to know about bdsm at the age of 18 when it was introduced to me by my ex-gf and later that relation turned into a dom-sub dynamics. It lasted for 5 years. Those five years taught me the true essence of BDSM and I realised that this is the thing that suits me. After this I had few short-term flings and then I met her. She was amazing and yes I met her online. We were an instant hit. She took care of me really well and in return I gave her all of my love. Sadly, we had to end this thing, we ended it on a good note. But as they say you canāt stay away much from BDSM and yes Iām craving for it.
About you
Please be a decent person. I donāt expect you to be a hotshot, I just want you to be a loving, kind and a caring person. I value honesty and loyalty, so if this is you then hands down, we are a good match for sure.
Iām a straight guy who leans more towards dominant side, so you need to be a 18 female submissive or female switch. Itās alright if youāre a newbie or experienced, just be your true self when you talk to me. Location is not an issue for me, you can be from any part of this planet. Iām open for couples as well but you guys have to approach me together. I donāt have interest in ruining someoneās marriage so if you both of you guys are in this together, then I might consider this.
Itās very likely that youāre going to be from a different place, so I would like to make it very clear that Iām open for meetings and possibly more if things go really well between us, not an issue for me. .
How this dynamics is going to be!
I like being in control, so I want full control over you. Yes it takes time and Iām up for it. Iād like to know more and more about you before jumping into any sort of dynamics, so just be patient. Weāll start it slow, weāll get to know each other and then slowly Iām going to take over. Also, I seek for both emotional connection and physical attraction. If we came into a bdsm relationship then weāre going to have regular interactions over audio/VC (Both sexual and Non Sexual). Weāll have daily tasks and occasional short/long sessions and punishments too, haha they are very important. I love teasing and troubling my submissives a lot and this is non negotiable (HaHa).
We are going to have a detailed discussion on each otherās kinks but one thing is for sure that I donāt like anything filthy, anything illegal and no permanent marks.
I think itās enough for today, just hit me up if you want the same thing. Keep it simple but unique. Do tell me about your favourite colour (we can use it as our safe word), mine is blue.
Cheers! <3
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