I’ve caught your eye with my title and now I need to try and not waste you’re valuable time. Whether we click or not thank you for taking the time to read this and know you’re awesome!

Why is it I seem so clear about what to write when I don’t have my phone; when driving, in the shower, out for a run, or just at work. Then by the time I have a moment to sit down I go blank and utter drivel comes out!

Ok ok so I thought about trying something different and instead of writing about me maybe I’ll write about you. If that resonates with you, either completely or just in part, then it might be worth saying hello and seeing where things go? That’s kind of the thinking anyway. If that doesn’t work for you then I have a few posts up on my profile each a slightly different approach but more in line with the ‘this is me’ style I guess to take a read and I have a couple of pictures posted too! Bonus points if you spot one of the questions in my previous posts and answer it. Anyway oh I don’t really use Reddit chat so please message me direct. If you haven’t used it before then let me know in chat and I can dm you from there. I’m old school and so use the old.Reddit site - just never got used to the new one lol, don’t judge me lol.

** Ok so about you. ** You know what this might be harder than I thought :-p

• Maybe you’re like me and you scroll through various Reddit forms reading posts and not feeling like they click. Some seem too good to be true, too intense, fake. Then occasionally there are diamonds in the rough but you’re nervous to say hello.

• You aren’t afraid to find something long term and value the connection and enjoyment of talking with someone new.

• Aren’t looking to move across the world or change your life for someone on the internet.

• Have your own things and happy to talk about them. We’re all busy and can’t be here every second of every day but do enjoy messaging back and fourth and keeping on each other’s mind.

• Enjoy being outside and doing things outdoors. Thinks like running, long walks, or just being out in the fresh air after a long stuffy day inside.

• Have an eclectic taste in music and can’t really define a genre you enjoy the most but music is part of your life.

• Generally a positive person or believe in the goodness writhing people. Not afraid to talk about thing when you’re down and ask for help too. It’s ok not to be ok :-)

• Love to travel and explore new parts of the world. Exploring new cultures and cuisines are exciting and change you as a person.

• Long hair! Doesn’t have to be but I love long hair and running my fingers through it. That coupled with cuddles in the morning and lots of hugs and kisses throughout the day.

• Enjoy a flirt and have a past experience with things a little dirty. On that train of thought aren’t afraid to try new things or explore different areas. Understand that we’re all on our own journey and sometimes it’s the people you meet along the way that form a part of that. It doesn’t have to be all the time but let’s be honest who doesn’t enjoy a little filth and flirting!

• Please don’t be a guy

I think that’s probably about all I can think of. I may end up deleting this because now it’s written down I’m not sure if it’s the right approach and if I come across arrogant. Why not try something else though? It’s important that you know that I am not a cis female and have been on here as part of a journey myself to explore a more feminine side of me. It’s been something I’ve been unsure about and so have been trying to understand more about it and myself. It’s less lifestyle and more curiosity for me and something I keep to myself. Clearly as I’m posting on here then I’m happy to share more with you but it’s important to start off on the right foot.

Oh if your into Formula 1 and watched the first race that gets some bonus points too! Tell me about yourself though, and let’s see where things go :-)

Thanks again for your time and either way you’re awesome and I hope you find who and what you’re looking for.

Jess xx