Hello! I am in the midalantic/east coast region of the US.

I feel like I am looking for a particular type of Dom & partner that I haven’t quite yet found looking through any of the r4r pages, so decided to make my own post and see who is out there.

Who I am
-I am smart, sweet, well educated, and funny (completely subjective - I think I’m funny.)
-I am shy at first but warm pretty quickly after good conversation.
-I don't really like to put labels on the kind of sub I am, because I am still learning myself in different relationships. I am sort of like a middle but do not do middle-space.
-I am not a brat, but I can be a little bratty or sassy if I feel like I am not getting the attention I want. I would consider myself a playful sub. I am a good girl for the most part and love to please.
-I am financially independent and have a career.
-I enjoy cooking, new restaurants, playing with my dog, hiking. As well as relaxing with a drink or sometimes a little 420 at the end of the night with some TV. Would be nicer to also be cuddled up next to someone.
-I am generally a pretty healthy individual. I did put on a little bit of Covid pounds this last year but am working hard to get back to where I want to be.
-I am not religious, but I do have morals that probably mirror some parts of christianty.

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Who you are
-You are an alpha male. But not a complete ass. And no mind games.
-You are naturally a dominant personality type, but you are caring and loving with the woman you are with.
-You are a protector. You are her protector.
-You want your sub to be the best she can be and want to help her reach her goals.
-You are looking for a long term relationship.
-You have a good sense of humor.
-You are monogamous - no exceptions.
-You are between the ages of 28-40.
-Preferably at least 5'10, but definitely not a deal breaker, so if you are not super tall please still message me :)

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Partnership
-Relationship first, Dynamic second. This is really important to me to build a meaningful connection with someone.
-As a partner I expect to be treated as an equal and am entitled to my own opinions. Happy to agree to disagree about various topics. (That being said, I am NOT a feminist, a socialist, or interested in identity politics)
-I do like when the man leads our relationship.
-I need engagement and real conversation.
-Our partnership will be built on love, trust, and respect and we will support each other.
-I would like this to start online as we get to know each other. If we are a good fit, I would eventually want to meet in person after some time. If the chemistry is there then hopefully this turns into a lasting relationship. My job is remote and so I can essentially end up anywhere and would relocate under the right circumstances.

Dynamic
-I am looking for a long term Sir or Daddy.
-Someone who is loving and nurturing of his sub, but knows when she needs to be put in her place. Who likes cuddles and giving her affection, but will rough her up in the bedroom.
-Someone who doesn’t mind being patient for my submission in the beginning. I need to trust you and feel secure before I can submit. Please read this again.
-I never had rules in a dynamic before, but kind of like the idea of it - however I am not into you picking out my clothing for the day type of thing.
-I am still new to BDSM and am still exploring my kinks, but happy to discuss them after we talk for a little to see if we are compatible.
-I am not looking to jump into a dynamic right away, I want to get to know you first and see if we are compatible as people. Please do not try to force my submission right away.

Hard Limits
Watersports/scat
Blood
ABDL
Incest fantasy
Pregnancy Play

Please do not message me if you are going to ask for nudes or tell me to get on my knees in the first 20 minutes because you are just wasting both of our time.

Do not message me just “Hi”. Please be prepared for a real conversation and have something to say.

IMPORTANT: I am not Covid vaccinated and do not intend to be. I also do not believe someone is trying to microchip me lol. Feel free to ask me about my stance on this, I am really happy to discuss it and hate how divided the world is on this issue.

If you made it this far and the last point doesn’t chase you away then you should probably message me and let me know what you liked about my post. Thanks for reading :)