About me:

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dad bod (I'm working on it, but I also give amazing cuddles because of it!) black curly hair Brown eyes Bilingual Introverted. I reserved/stoic. Emotional. Romantic. Disease-free Fully vaxxed

Things that are very important in my life:

Language Board Games/Tabletop RPGs/Card Games Music (Rock/Metal/Punk/etc.) Writing

I have 15 years of experience. I am looking to give strict rules, guidelines and take care of little, kitten, or sub. I am looking for some physical contact. I am looking for something local in NY and I am open to LDR. I just want to get to know you first and learn about your little space and your adult you. So once we can reach the level of daddy dom and little, kitten or sub and we can schedule play sessions with me as your future daddy dom ;)

What is DDLG to me?

To me, the thing that most attracts me to DDLG is an exchange of trust between two people that love each other and want to be everything to each other.

I want to be your rock, and I want to be there to help you when you need it. I want to protect you. I want to smother you in affection and show you how much I love you. I want to sit you in my lap and hear about your day and cuddle all the time.

But I also want to guide you. And sometimes punish you, if it's necessary to teach you about something.

I want our days to be filled with smiles and laughter. I love memes, dumb jokes (or intelligent ones!). I love hearing funny stories and anecdotes from your life.

From me, you will get support, mentorship, love, and acceptance. You will get someone who takes your submission seriously and as a gift. I won't take it for granted, and you will not regret giving yourself to me. I want to be able to discuss controversial topics with you without either side getting upset. I don't expect us to agree on every topic, but I want both of us to be interested in why the other thinks the way they do

I want someone who is something of a middle. Things like stuffed animals and wanting to dress cute are great. But I don't enjoy age play, so no pacifiers, baby talk, and the like. I also expect my ideal girl to hold a job and be able to take care of herself financially.

Rules/punishments are not required, but I am interested in doing them.

I'm not interested in polygamy. It's not for me. I want someone who wants to dedicate themselves to me in this way, and only me. And in return, I will do the same for them.

Kinks/Sexy Stuff

This stuff doesn't have to enter the conversations between us until you're comfortable with it. But, since it is a part of DDLG, at least to an extent, I figured I'd write a tiny bit about it.

I am extremely kinky and willing to try almost anything once if it pleases my partner, even if it is something I'm not into. Limits: scat, ageplay, diapers, bestiality, cutting, etc.

I have a too high sex drive, in that I could easily have sex with my ideal partner multiple times a day, every day, and not get tired of it. Ideally, this would be the same for you.

I love being teased, so I'd love a girl who likes to tease/flirt with me all the time. Someone who is excited by the idea of wearing sexy outfits to get my attention. Who could be comfortable telling me that they were thinking about me, and that it got them super wet and how they wish I were there to be able to take care of it.

One of my biggest kinks is creampies. I fucking love it so much, and I was denied it in past relationships. So my ideal girl would be on birth control of some kind (the pill/IUD/etc.). She would love the idea, for example, of me giving her a creampie before work and her having to go to work with my cum inside her.

Second to that would be free use. My ideal girl would want nothing more than to be used by daddy for his pleasure. That's not to say I would never think of her needs, but I would also train her to be my little cumslut.

You:

Age range: Mid 20s to Late 30s. Okay, with everything you just read. I was excited, even. Intelligent. Educated. Open to different perspectives. I have a soft spot for creative types (Art, music, writing, etc.) and nerdy girls.

I don't have any requirements for looks. If I'm attracted to you, that's all that matters.

I have a soft spot for: (Not deal breaker if you are not)

Curly hair. Red hair. Green/blue eyes. Girls are much shorter than me OR close to my height. Either extreme is beautiful to me. Goth types. Extremely cutesy types. (A Must) You should be someone who enjoys communication (A must or I will cut you off) and, more importantly, are available to. I’m understanding and open-minded, but a basic level of open communication should occur. Someone who sees the benefit of connecting through non-kink conversation before exploring each other's kinky side Be ambitious/ successful in your own right- it’s great to be still working through college or not necessarily in your desired career just want to ensure a level of mutual respect exists

I realize this has been demanding, but I have high standards for myself and my Little/middle/sub/pet. If you are still reading, send me a PM. Let's see where we can go