There's a point in a really good session where I see the person sorta turn off. Where the constant stream of thought and ego and posturing just slowly drifts off and they are left to just experience the moment fully and only in their body. I've seen it across a wide variety of activities. I like to think that I'm good at getting people there. Giving them a break from themselves. But it takes some work. I've gotta understand what motivates and scares them. What percent stick and what percent carrot they need. It doesn't happen every time but when it does, I feel like I've done good work. But recently I've noticed that the energy this interaction requires isn't infinite. That I could also use a break from myself occasionally. That I'm curious and almost envious of those beautiful people, tied up on the floor or getting fucked in a cage or counting down as I hit them. I want some of that. I want to have a space to turn off for a bit. That's where you come in. You don't need to be an expert, though technique is appreciated. You don't need a ton of space in your life, mine is quite finite. You don't need to be a model though attraction is useful. I'm looking for a person that can make a space where I don't have to make decisions. I understand the work that goes into this as I do it for others. There is not a requirement for sexuality tho on some level, this would probably work best if I really want to fuck you and you were ambivalent. I'm open to a range of setups and am not opposed to something transactional. What I can offer is a genuine desire to please. A full and deep appreciation of the effort and attention it takes to do this work. My personal interests are extremely wide ranging. From intense impact and degradation to more mundane service tasks. My limits are few. No findom, no rules that affect how interact with my other partners. And I have a pretty intense needle phobia. So that's mainly off limits. I'm getting vacinnated tomorrow so this seems like a good time to start the search. 5'9" fit, masculine presenting cis male. Live in brooklyn, mostly.
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