✨Just to be Stated ✨ If your going to message me, don’t just say hi. Unless I’m deathly bored I will not reply to it; our feeling into it. When you message me tell me some things, as a prompt tell me; •What are you looking for? •What’s your gender and sexuality? •Do you have discord (preferred way of talking) or any other social media that is easier to confirm who you are (I have Facebook for that)? •Do you have partners? •What are your hobbies? •What do you look like? •Age? •Are you into kink?

Hæ hæ! It’s a pleasure to meet you, my name is Rune! I’m 25, AFAB, gender fluid, sexually fluid, demisexual, polyam person who goes by any pronouns. I’m autistic, have mutliple personality disorder, minor agoraphobia, and a few others. I have seeked help, and am currently in help so those that need to be controlled are in a good place. I work to better myself and not cause a toxic place for others.

My family is from Iceland for generations, I was born and raised there though by an adoptive family; one who was Polyam in nature. So I was raised under quite a few languages but only speak and write Icelandic and English. I now live in Canada, as of less than a year ago. I’m trying to decide if I want to stay here, or move to AZ in America. I only have one sibling; a twin!

I’m married, I have a Lifey (it’s a gender neutral term and will never stop using it. People can pry it from my cold, dead lips if they want it.)

I work as a professional dominatrix, but have worked as marketing for a triple A game company in the past as well (well doing this job as well at the same time). In the fall I will be going in to study welding, though will probably do that part time and still keep with my pro Domme job; I love my work.

⛓ NSFW info ⛓ •Okay with all kinks, you will never be judged. My only thing is; it can’t be with wee beasties (animals) or minors. •Supportive of Ace partners, I have been with a few in the past. •I’m a switch with a Domme lean but can still submit. •I’m heavily into erotic roleplay, if you partake in that? It would be most ideal.

❌ What am I avoiding? ❌ •Someone who is with someone who will have veto power over me, or the relationship I am in with you. •Unicorn / dragon hunters. I’m not interested in anything strictly sexual, or my feelings to be ignored. I’m not here to be your divorce doula. •FWB or purely sex based relationships. I’m not here for your sexual pleasure, if you make it like that... I charge a price for that to happen; and chances are if you waste my time I’ll charge you more just on pure principle. •Someone who refuses to better themselves; example... you have a mental health issue but refuse to get assistance for it. I have mental health issues and do not wish to constantly see someone in pain because of their pride to not get help. •Racists, sexists, homophobics, transphobics, bi / pan phobics. I was adopted by a polyam family; a Two spirit parent who was African, Spanish and native. A parent FtM who was Spanish and white. And a father who was Scottish / Irish. I was raised in a family to be agaisnt racists and homophobia / transphobia. Not to mention I’m married to a trans, and I’m trans myself by being genderfluid even though I mainly femme present which is my birth sex. •Controlling or to dependant. I love and live for someone who is clingy, I like that. Though I won’t deal with someone who as a melt down just because I went out with friends / family or ended up not replying for a couple hours (I always update) or if i say I need abit of time alone. •People who treat me like an experiment, I’m not here to find out if your into women, genderfluid people, or anything femme presenting. •Body shamers.

🔎 What I’m looking for? 🔍 •Communication. •Someone who games / roleplay (can type mutliple paragraphs or more) would be a first choice. I mainly play Xbox, a TAD of PC and a large slap of Switch. So Xbox would be ideal. •Someone who won’t make me carry the full talk. I can for sure come up with a lot to say, but I want someone who puts just as much passion into it as me. So someone who can write more is more appealing to me. •Someone who respects my partner(s). •Someone who meta I can sit down and chat with, knowing they don’t detest my guts. •Confortmation from meta that they know you are polyam. I only do this because I found out a couple people on here lied about their other partner knowing and it caused drama. •Someone who practiced ethical polyam; be it i the form of triad, quad, solo or whatever. I personally practice anarchy, as stated before. Everyone will be equal and you’ll never have to worry about someone else being out first! •Someone who supports my job as a Pro Domme and knows I’m not planning to drop it for a long time. If ever.

🍄 Hobbies 🍄 Gaming, roleplay, working out, parkour, reading, dealing with my three pups, gardening, kink and BDSM, origami, sewing, knitting, crocheting, board games, volunteer work, yoga, stargazing, bowling, cleaning, cosplaying, herb / seasoning keeping (I have ALOT of different kinds.), memory training (been through chemotherapy three times for brain cancer), pole dancing, etc.

💌 Love Languages 💌 This will be listed as favourite to least; though I’ll do all depending on the partner.

•Words of affermation; I love writing, and writing a lot. I prefer the same amount or close to it back. The more you write the strong my interest in, people who rarely reply with much won’t be able to keep my eye as easy. •Gifting; I prefer to give than get. A major love thing to me is buying a person gifts, I make enough that I can spoil my partner but I have been put in a limit; the only limit my Lifey gives me. I am not allowed to gift someone till I been with them for 6 months to a year because I keep getting used for my money. •Acts of service; I take joy in making persons day easier. If that means cleaning up, talking to them on the phone and telling them a story, game time and carrying them even though I’m pro trash at games. Getting acts of service done to me is always really nice, getting me a cup of water, letting out the dogs for me, etc. •Physical touch; I’m autistic and sometimes I can get uncomfortable with being touched. I can’t even sleep around people I barely know unless I have someone trusted there. Though when I’m close to people I like to cuddle, and massage them. PDA scares me if I’m not one going for it, if it’s being done to me, I get abit nervous. •Quality time; this one is the lowest for me because I’m really independent and need time alone. You’ll hear me often say… “I’m getting offline for a couple hours for music.” Its kind of like a reset button.

🌈 As stated, I like all relationships styles. I don’t mine joining a triad or quad with you and your partners. Though I would prefer someone join me and my Lifey in a triad or quad. HOWEVER… my ideal goal is to go into a solo relationship one on one. 🌈

💙 Info about my partner, if this interests you! 💙

Unnure is 28, turning 29 on March 14. She is AMAB, Genderfluid, Ambimorous, Bisexual, Demisexual, Asian America, 5’8, lea / thin and uses all pronouns. You’ll notice I’ll switch up there pronouns when talking about them, and in this post! I also refer to my Unny as; Wife, wifey, hubby, and Lifey (main one). As well as other pet names.

They have gone to collage for the following; •Graphic Design •Art •Computer Science

🔎 Looking for 🔍 •Unny is not interested in solo relationships, they make her nervous and will only date someone if I have been with them / are with them. I personally think they haven’t found the person who’s perfect for them to solo date. Though I support them in wanting only a triad or a quad with me, since they are ethical in their ways. •Someone who’s into kink. Unnure is a full fledged dom who doesn’t like to submit. •Looking for friends, partners and other such things. •Communication. •Pro LGBTQIA and more so liberal. •Enjoys video games. •Roleplays. •Knows how to carry on a convo.

🌱 A little note from them when I asked what they are wanting, so here it is directly from her lips~! 🌱

I am looking for some one that I can grow with my wifey. I am wanting to explore ideas and learn about the other person. It’s important to be able to not have hierarchy and it’s good to be able to communicate ones own needs and wants. Some one who isn’t afraid to talk about how they feel. And share there feelings. I think that’s rather important to be able to tell others what you need more of or even less of if it’s too much of something. Honestly I a very mellow person. and I just want to see the people I am with happy. But I want you to be able to communicate on your bad days as well.

I love to read, and hike. And I enjoy dancing a lot. Even if I am not a great dancer I find it fun. Swimming is great. And so is cooking I love to learn. And it doesn’t matter how. From books or videos. I just like to find out new facts. It’s really important to me. I love video games and anything nerdy. It’s fun to see anything Technology wise.

For me love languages are a simple as just saying I like you to snuggles. Weird little gifts to out of the box ideas. I might go hiking grab obsidian and make something out of it as a gift. My love language is being quiet with the person singing with the person. And talking none stop. It’s not a simple one way of speaking but a lot of different small ways of talking and sending my feelings.

I am a happy go with the flow kind of person. I just want to see the people I am with happy. I want to seen them excited and thrilled at times laughing. And I want to be the rock when times are hard. To know if anything goes wrong or anything happens that we can always come back together and talk it out.