Hey, I'm Damon, a lifestyle kinkster who practices BDSM in and out of the bedroom 24/7. I started my exploration of BDSM at 18 online then moved to practicing in person in my early 20's. At this point I've done a bit (or maybe a lot) of everything: getting involved in the BDSM community, attending play parties and dungeons, learning at classes and conventions, volunteering, making toys and furniture in leather and wood, teaching classes, providing demos of kinks and play styles and enjoying D/s relationships ranging from kinky friends to play partners to 24/7 TPE.

Not everything in my life is kink focused though. I enjoy video games, reading, cooking, board games, hikes, exercise, travel and a variety of shows/movies/anime. I also have a solid career, pets I love and adult sons who have moved out to start building their own lives. My house often acts as a social hub where I host holidays, game nights and small kink events. Which also leads to fun house improvement projects and just general upkeep.

I'm open to both "permanent/long-term and committed" or "short/medium term and engaging". I understand that people, their lives and situations are complex. It is up to us to define a relationship, dynamic and arrangement that works for us. It could be "I would like to learn more about BDSM and I have these questions, to "I want to explore these kinks, can we negotiate a one off scene" all the way up to "I want to be permanently owned property". Just give me an idea of what you are hoping for in your first message.

I do strongly prefer in-person play. Online is a way to meet people, build connections, vet, negotiate and schedule things. If you are strictly looking for role play or online play, we probably aren't a great fit. I can host or travel as needed once we get to that point.

I enjoy balance in extremes. I can be sadistic, but also caring and kind. I can micromanage, but also encourage someone to grow and learn as they make mistakes. I can guide and encourage with praise and rewards or have strict rules that are enforced with punishment. I can create a safe space where someone can be themselves or I can invoke fear. I can hold you to high protocol or I can enjoy soft moments like cuddles on the couch. Life shouldn't be stagnant - it should enjoy all of the extremes (and everything in between) to be healthy and fun.

I follow RACK/PRICK and believe that just about all activities done between consenting adults are okay. I have more kinks and fetishes than I can conveniently list here - if something isn't in the list, just ask, I probably am into it - from main stream interests to the darker extremes and edge play.

24/7, anal play, breath play, behavior modification, bondage (leather, tape, long term, extreme, etc.), breast bondage/torture, cages, chastity/orgasm denial, CNC, electrical play, encasement/mummifications, eye/speech restrictions, fear play, feminization/pinup, high protocol, humiliation/degradation, impact play (canes, flogging, spanking, whips, pervetables, etc.), interrogations, kidnappings, knives, latex, leather, metal bondage, mind fucks, objectification, orgasm control/denial, predicaments, rope, sensory deprivation, service, wax ... and much more

I look forward to hearing from you if I've caught your interest. And if we aren't a good match, I wish you the best in your search.

Damon