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31 [F4M] #CA #SoCal #Online Sweet & spicy "middle" seeking a Daddy to make me laugh, care for me, and share something special
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circeandthesirens is a female age 31 looking for a male in California
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31-year-old petite redhead from sunny Southern California with a black cat personality: sarcastic, occasionally bratty, but ultimately sweet and loyal to the right person. I’m an art lover who spends her free time baking, traveling, and occasionally pretending I understand wine pairings. This year’s goal? Learning an instrument, so if you’re musically inclined, bonus points for helping me not sound like a dying cat.

I work in a creative field that’s both demanding and rewarding, so I like my personal life to feel loving, playful, and easygoing. I identify more as "middle" than a "little"—ageplay isn’t my thing, and I’m looking for someone who sees me as a partner outside of the bedroom but can indulge my occasional bratty streak within it. I enjoy being a good girl but might need the occasional (consensual) reminder to stay in line.

I’m hoping to find a Daddy who’s kind, confident, and consistent—a caregiver who thrives on nurturing and has a playful side. Someone who can take charge without being domineering and is comfortable blending our dynamic into the vanilla aspects of life. I value honesty, emotional intelligence, and humor (seriously, if you’re not funny, what are we even doing here?). Physically, I go wild for tattoos, nice hair, and a slimmer/fit build, but confidence and a deep voice will get you far. I’m looking for someone between 27-41, preferably in the US or Canada for time zone sanity, but I’m open to other locales if the vibe is right.

I love pet names, small rules, and gentle reminders outside the bedroom—just enough to keep the connection present throughout the day. Inside the bedroom, I lean toward nurturing and playful, though my bratty side sometimes begs to be tamed (if you’re up for the challenge). I love lingerie and dressing up for Daddy. Rougher play and some discipline is also welcome. I have a broad range of kinks, that all intersect in some way with DDLG that I'm open to sharing more in private messages. However, ABDL, blood, scat, diapers, animals, and any sort of medical play aren't my things. I have 5 years of real-world DDLG experience and about 10 within the broader kink community. I’m big on texting, voice notes (and sucker for a deep voice), and calls. Eventually, I’d like things to progress to FaceTime and an in-person connection. Bonus points if you’re also someone who enjoys traveling or is open to visits down the road.

I’m looking for someone progressive in all aspects of life—conservative leanings or apathy toward social issues aren’t a match for me. I am bisexual, but monogamy is very important to me, and group play sadly isn't for me. I'm seeking a Daddy who’s just as committed to honesty and open communication as I am. Mutual respect is non-negotiable, as is someone who understands boundaries and values consistency. Tell me about yourself! Where are you from, your age, and your experience with this dynamic? What about the DDLG lifestyle appeals to you? Feel free to include an SFW photo if you’d like. No pressure, I myself typically only feel comfortable swapping photos after we've chatted a bit.

If you’ve made it this far, congrats—clearly, you’re not scared off by the sass. 😏 Drop me a message if you’re looking for a partner who’ll keep you on your toes, make you laugh, and occasionally “forget” the rules just to see what happens.

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