31-year-old petite redhead from sunny Southern California with a black cat personality: sarcastic, occasionally bratty, but ultimately sweet and loyal to the right person. Iâm an art lover who spends her free time baking, traveling, and occasionally pretending I understand wine pairings. This yearâs goal? Learning an instrument, so if youâre musically inclined, bonus points for helping me not sound like a dying cat.
I work in a creative field thatâs both demanding and rewarding, so I like my personal life to feel loving, playful, and easygoing. I identify more as "middle" than a "little"âageplay isnât my thing, and Iâm looking for someone who sees me as a partner outside of the bedroom but can indulge my occasional bratty streak within it. I enjoy being a good girl but might need the occasional (consensual) reminder to stay in line.
Iâm hoping to find a Daddy whoâs kind, confident, and consistentâa caregiver who thrives on nurturing and has a playful side. Someone who can take charge without being domineering and is comfortable blending our dynamic into the vanilla aspects of life. I value honesty, emotional intelligence, and humor (seriously, if youâre not funny, what are we even doing here?). Physically, I go wild for tattoos, nice hair, and a slimmer/fit build, but confidence and a deep voice will get you far. Iâm looking for someone between 27-41, preferably in the US or Canada for time zone sanity, but Iâm open to other locales if the vibe is right.
I love pet names, small rules, and gentle reminders outside the bedroomâjust enough to keep the connection present throughout the day. Inside the bedroom, I lean toward nurturing and playful, though my bratty side sometimes begs to be tamed (if youâre up for the challenge). I love lingerie and dressing up for Daddy. Rougher play and some discipline is also welcome. I have a broad range of kinks, that all intersect in some way with DDLG that I'm open to sharing more in private messages. However, ABDL, blood, scat, diapers, animals, and any sort of medical play aren't my things. I have 5 years of real-world DDLG experience and about 10 within the broader kink community. Iâm big on texting, voice notes (and sucker for a deep voice), and calls. Eventually, Iâd like things to progress to FaceTime and an in-person connection. Bonus points if youâre also someone who enjoys traveling or is open to visits down the road.
Iâm looking for someone progressive in all aspects of lifeâconservative leanings or apathy toward social issues arenât a match for me. I am bisexual, but monogamy is very important to me, and group play sadly isn't for me. I'm seeking a Daddy whoâs just as committed to honesty and open communication as I am. Mutual respect is non-negotiable, as is someone who understands boundaries and values consistency. Tell me about yourself! Where are you from, your age, and your experience with this dynamic? What about the DDLG lifestyle appeals to you? Feel free to include an SFW photo if youâd like. No pressure, I myself typically only feel comfortable swapping photos after we've chatted a bit.
If youâve made it this far, congratsâclearly, youâre not scared off by the sass. đ Drop me a message if youâre looking for a partner whoâll keep you on your toes, make you laugh, and occasionally âforgetâ the rules just to see what happens.
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