It is a cold and crisp evening in the city. In front of the theater where the symphony plays, a large sedan glides up to the entrance. A well-dressed man steps out of the car, a smile on his face, happiness clear on his mind. He wears a gray suit, shined black shoes, and a gold watch. The man walks to the passenger door of the car, gently making eye contact with others, nodding towards them respectfully. In one move he swings open the passenger door and out moves a woman in a dark green dress, hair done up, her makeup accenting the curvatures of her face, with subtle flashes of jewelry on her ears and around her neck. He closes the door and the two of them lock arms and in lock step, move towards the entrance all the while smiling and laughing. They look absolutely timeless.

Their happiness is not an accident, nor is it one of flaunting. It is a natural flow between the two of them that, on the surface, seems to be an even match – a well-balanced harmony of soprano and bass. However, what only the two of them know is that beneath the manicured and clean-cut appearances that evening, is a small plug attempting to exercise its’ outward mobility while the woman must work to keep it entertained without the use of her hands. Playing second fiddle is the vibrator humming away in her under wear – a gentle pulsing reminder of who put it there, why he put it there, and who really was in control despite outward appearances.

This night is not one of any particular importance, but just another evening out for them. A discreet non-public display of the flow of their dynamic, of their partnership. Behind closed doors lies the true flow of their relationship – one of dominance, care, mutual respect, exploration, and love for their respective roles. They are comfortable with who they are and what their dynamic stands for – they bring each other up, explore their darkest desires, and communicate (sometimes without words) their needs. For each of them, they are each other’s worlds.

I am a 33 year old man from the Midwest who has felt that ever since I was a child that I was born 70 years too late for something. As I have grown older, the feeling has never wavered. I am a liberal and nonreligious man, but I believe in traditional values. Holding a good and stable job, living in a clean house, picking up trash you see on the street, and being a decent person to everyone are important to me. And while I have these older values, I crave modern dominance where my omnipresence persists in a dynamic and partnership; where my submissive begins to wonder, “what would He think about this?” or, “Would He like this color of lipstick on me?”

What I am looking for sounds simple but I understand that it is not. A woman, unafraid to be herself in all her sexuality, willing to be my equal but not at my level, who is willing to give herself to a Dominant man in order to create the stability and sexual excitement behind closed doors (and under our clothing) that she craves. I am looking for someone who is willing to blur the lines between vanilla and kink with me, and who is willing to give their trust that I can guide us in the best direction. I want us to be timeless.

I am looking for a woman who is kind to wait staff, of healthy kind and body, who cares about how she looks without being vain, who does not smoke or do drugs, and who is willing to try the food I cook and grill. I do not have a body type but health is important. I do not expect someone to be rail thin, but taking care of our mind, body, and spirit will keep us around for awhile.

I would love to discuss more about kinks but I want to reserve that for the right person, who has the right words to say.

I am rambling at this point, and my noir vision of this type of kinky romanticism has me in a certain mood as I look outside at the gently falling snow. If a lifelong adventure that blends between the light and dark, the spanking and the hand holding, the delicate class of a symphony night with a dark and heavy session of a paddle and toys is something you wish to discuss, sending a message with information about yourself would be a wonderful start.

I hope to speak to you soon.