I'm looking for a caregiver/daddy/mommy type to motivate me to be good and do self care. I'm going to be doing more physical therapy at home this year because my insurance sucks. I have a lot of the equipment here at home and even put some on my Christmas wish list. So if you're a masochist that would also want me to feel good, this is probably perfect for you!
I'm also at a plateau in my career because I need to get some more certifications under my belt to progress. Just knowing I have someone that cares that I'm doing well and sees what a hard worker I am is enough to motivate me usually. I do really well at my job and already complete tasks these certifications are for, I just need to make the time to study and take them. I'm a total praise whore that loves being graded and measured, so I don't know why I'm putting it off to be honest.
Some background and kinks:
I want a caregiver type because no one has ever treated me as well as my parents do. Every partner I've had has left me wanting more. I also really like pleasure doms/dommes and service tops. I can do decorative ties on myself, so I don't need a rigger but it would be good if you enjoy it.
As for kinks and scenes, I'll have to know you enough to like you a lot before we dive into my masochist side beyond the physical therapy tasks. But my hard limits are blackmail, scat, hypno, watersports, animals, minors, permanent marks, beating, humiliation, degradation, feeding, anal, and anything that affects my family or my work. My family and my career are my top priorities. I am a rope bunny who loves some pain, so I'm sure we'll find some overlap. I also am gender fluid afab but prefer to present femme or how you'd like me to present. Use me as your doll or your masterpiece.
The boring stuff: I am non-monogamous and have one partner that I don't live with and see a couple times a week. I am in the EST zone. I work a regular 9-5. I would prefer fully online to start at least. I have people in my life that are high risk for COVID so it is unlikely I will travel or want to meet in person right away but it is something I can make happen if we get that close or entwined.
If you're still intrigued, I'd love to know your age (prefer within 10 years in either direction) and for you to describe two typical days for you….one of your work days and one of your days off.
I can't wait to hear from you and hope we can make a connection!
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