Hello, Hope you're well, and Happy Thanksgiving!
About Me: 28, 5'7, 188lb, Black. (I'm pretty muscular with some flab (Dadbod?), and I'm capable of throwing someone around a bit.) I look pretty friendly and nerdy. Genuinely an easy going person. I have done CNC once in the past when I was younger, and I really enjoyed the experience.
What I'm Looking For: CNC! I have various Scenarios I would like to act out with someone, and I'm interested in hearing some of your kinks or fantasies too. I will post two of my scenarios below.
Ideally, you are minimum of 20 years of age. You do not have to have experience but being able to describe what you want, and your needs is ideal. If it's something you're unsure of, we can discuss. I am not interested in anyone outside of the Georgia area, and I will not travel.
Rules: Please understand this is for both of us. It is for safety and to make sure we both understand each other have a great time.
We must voice call AND meet once in public platonically before anything sexual or physical happens. This is just to make sure we vibe with eachother and it's something we want to continue. At any point, either one of us can call off the date. :)
If you are completely unexperienced with CNC, I'd prefer 2 platonic meetups or 1 platonic, a physical activity where you're comfortable just being touched by me. (dancing, pickleball, gym, Play wrestling (nonsexual), Rough Sex w/ Safeword )
I mandate Safewords. There is no "I don't want a safeword". That's silly and I will block you and/or move on. I'm sorry. I do two safe words: One for slow down, it's too much. Another for Stop completely, I feel unsafe. (We will discuss this and the words we will use).
-- I always do a small safeword rehearsals
Aftercare is mandated. I'm talking about Words of Affirmation for you, massages, good touches, cuddles, food. This isn't really to be discussed. You don't want to be home or go home feeling mentally awful and drained after a good session.
Scenarios
Home Invader - Basic. You're out for a jog, or you're walking. I'm following closely behind in my car or walking/jogging behind you. You notice and you start picking up speed to get home. In your hurry you forget to lock your doors . (Can go into more detail about this one.) Struggle Scene
Friends/Lovers Gone Wrong - I love this one. It involves just constant banter. Maybe you're constantly changing your mind, maybe you dressed up, but refuse to give me any? I get frustrated while we're together and just take you.
Blackmail/Punishment - Simple: You broke something and you have no money. You accidentally sent me photos or messages you weren't supposed to and I just blackmail you.
All these are simple, but relatively safe and in a comfortable environment. I'm open to more ideas as-well.
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