Being able to satisfy someone I’ve submitted to is a source of pride for me. Being their slut, their toy to use for their enjoyment is almost addicting. It doesn’t mean you, a stranger, get to message me calling me a slut and expect a response.
The difference is that bested me. Outwitted me. They’re my superior. They’re the one who can make me into a brainless, mushy mess, where my only thought is the sound of the last instructions they gave me. There’s a lot of connotations to having submitted to them. It’s intense. When I get deep into subspace like it’s like I’m floating in the vast nothingness of space, waiting until they direct their attention to me and will me into existence for a moment. It’s also why I don’t usually submit to people. I might play with them, but not submission is for my partner. My match.
It’s this delicious balance of independence and codependence. I firmly believe it’s important to have a full and meaningful life independent of your partner, and to be a whole person in and of yourself. I do my own thing on my own time, but the entire time my partner is occupying my thoughts. If I’m doing something I think about what they’re up to. If I see something they’d like, I get it for them. Ideally this would be for life. But it’s also not something you can just jump into without getting to know each other. That’s neither safe nor healthy. I’m not going to just accept the first messages letting me know they’re a Dominant and cosplaying 50 shades.
Introduce yourself! Tell me who you are. Show me you’re an individual while treating me as a person first. I know this post is opening me up to a lot of hassle, but it’s worth it if I find my incredible, irresistible, stable, romantic Daddy.
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