I'm a 41 year old man in Manchester, Northwest England (UK). I'm very well educated and have a professional career. I have blue eyes, grey brown hair, several tattoos and am fairly stocky.

I am looking for a submissive woman who is looking for sessions/scenes with an older sadistic dom and doesn't mind being observed by another submissive woman who may or may not be involved. She will initially be observing but may decide to join if it feels right for her. Or maybe I'll restrain her wrists so her hands do not wander.

Vanilla me: I have a very dry sense of humour but do believe that everything has to have an element of fun otherwise what's the point. I like movies, reading, good food, having a good chuckle and learning. I have a passion for astronomy and could chat about the universe all day long. I have respect for human beings and believe if something makes you happy and it does not hurt anyone else, then have at it. I am also very much appreciative of boundaries and consent and believe that without either how can you possibly feel safe and secure.

Kinkwise: I enjoy spanking/slapping, Ownership, objectification, orgasm control, breeding fantasy, Restraints, gagging, hair pulling, punishment, cnc and I'm sure many others I cannot think of right now. All of my kinks are on a scale and are of course adjustable depending on who is on the receiving end.

My limits are: No blood or bathroom play. I will not do anything dangerous that could have long term impacts (I.e. I won't punch, cut, permantely harm someone). Nothing illegal.

It would be great if you were fairly local, however, I can travel if needed but I certainly would prefer someone in the UK.

My kink life is very separate to my vanilla life and for me privacy is key, I will always respect your privacy and would appreciate the same in return.

If this post has resonated with you at all and you are interested then I would love to hear from you. Please send me a few bits of key information such as age and where you are located and we can chat further.

Hope to chat soon.