Let’s start straight off at the deep end. I’ve been on here for some time now and always gone by the name Jess. In fact when you look through my post history you will see a lot of detail and all at various points on this roller coaster of an online journey.

It’s been a few months since I was last here and coming back I’m not sure the T tag is right anymore. Maybe it never was but that’s another story. For now when you write to me just call me J and we will see where it goes.

Whenever I think about writing a post, it always seems like a great idea until I get to the point where I’m actually posting it and then I think why would someone bother reading and be interested? I can be flirty and giddy, excited by the thought of almost anything… then be shy and bashful all within a day! Go figure.

I promised you something deeper. That’s because I’m really looking for a friend. That sort of friend you can check in on every day or so for a little conversation about whatever and it just feel natural. There will of course be elements of kink because that’s why I’m here in this subreddit and not messaging people I already know. It’s probably why you’re here too :-p The point is that it doesn’t need to be the focus of the conversation, and in all honesty im not really sure where my heads at with stuff like that anyway. If you’re looking for a lean to the sub or dom side id say I’m still in the middle but leaning slightly more towards the sub side as a bit of excitement, inspiration, and encouragement always goes a long way.

I’m really up for talking about anything and everything. I have a complicated home life and a dog that I love to go on long walks with to the beach or up in the mountains. I fear the trump supporting world so many of us live in so feel I have to say that I’m looking for someone open minded and non judgemental.

I don’t really know what else to write. Unlike previous I’ll keep this short and we can pick the rest up in your message. Have an amazing day today and think about one thing you can do to make someone else smile :-)

Peace