⚠️Please note: I am wordy. Extremely wordy. I’ve tried my best but I also want to be as specific and explain myself as much as possible, so I’ve ended up writing a bit of an essay. You have been warned. ⚠️

Basically, I’m a Christian with a lot of kinks who nevertheless tries to stick to the Bible, and I’m looking for my life partner, at least eventually. In the meantime I’d love just people to chat to, share interests and make friends with.

My basic reason for posting this is I want a true life partner who gets along with me, and I’d hate to date someone for years, get married to her and only find out later that we’re sexually incompatible. So I figured, why not lay everything out on the table right here, right now. So, I’ll get to the sexual stuff later on, since I also want to get along with you as a person. Having a partner you only love for sexual pleasure is worse than having a partner you only like for their personality, IMO.

To start off, in the interest of complete transparency I’d say I’m firmly planted on the libertarian-conservative side of the aisle. While I don’t believe you need to agree with your partner on everything, I understand that politics can be a big dealbreaker for some people.

I’m a huge nerd and I have a variety of interests, such as Transformers, Anime, History, Reading, Hiking/camping/general survival, board games, and much much more. This list is by no means exhaustive, but I’ll try and make it in general a top-to-bottom ranking of my biggest interests down to my more (relatively) minor ones. And of course, you don’t have to be interested in all the things I am, just okay with me liking them/talking about them.

Okay, now for the part you’ve all skipped ahead to. First off, I don’t believe in sex (read: intercourse, orgasming on/with a partner) outside of marriage, but there’s obviously a lot of room to have fun outside of that. I love hugging, cuddling, kissing, making out, groping, (as long as it’s not the crotch region) etc. And a lot more.

I do think discussing sex before marriage is important, because if we already know we are compatible we won’t have all the worries of a traditional Christian couple that doesn’t even discuss sex until after or right before marriage; we’d know what we like and dislike, we’d know what to expect, etc. and we wouldn’t have the lingering doubts of “is this really the right person for me? What if we don’t get along perfectly after marriage? What if they pressure me to do things I’m not into, or if I’m into things they really dislike?” Etc.

As for other relationship-dynamic type stuff, a lot of traditional Christians are big on female submission, but I don’t want to be a dictator or a stronghanded controller, I want a partner who gets along with me because she wants to and because our personalities mesh well, not because I force her to suppress her own feelings and personality when ever it suits me. And of course like I said, I’m a raging libertarian who values freedom very highly. So as far as I’m concerned, your submission is up to you. I’ve had relationships where I choose what my girlfriend wears every day, her hairstyle, her lipstick, even down to parts of her daily schedule and whether or not she could use the bathroom. I’ve found that very fun and rewarding, but I’ve also had relationships where we got along as equals and everything from minor things to major decisions were discussed and agreed to amicably, and I’ve also found that very fun and rewarding.

My kinks are very diverse and varied, and you, again, do not have to share all of them, or even be okay with all of them. I’ll respect your limits and boundaries (that shouldn’t have to be said, but some people are scummy sooo…). Obviously though, if you message me and you’re into like, 3 things from this entire list and the rest are hard limits, I doubt we’d find much success. These are mostly my major kinks, and hearts are beside the ones that I really, really can’t see myself going without. So without further ado, in no particular order:

~ breeding (I don’t want a bajillion kids (a few are fine though). I more so think the idea of pretending I’m breeding you is fun. Thank God for birth control) ❤️‍🔥 ~ light to medium pain ~ free use ~ light petplay (collars, ears and tail, etc) ~ Watersports/wetting ~ Degradation, name-calling, etc.
~ breast/nipple play, sucking❤️‍🔥 ~ lactation ❤️‍🔥 ~ misogyny ~ CNC ~ Being rough in general❤️‍🔥 ~ Clothed sex/dry humping ~ Master/slave dynamic

Limits: -Scat -blood -sharing/cheating/cuckolding/swinging/whatever it’s called these days -exhibitionism/voyeurism -knifeplay/blood or any kind -asphyxiation

A bit more to note: I don’t care how you look, as long as you’re healthy! I don’t care if you smoke, vape, etc, I’m open to anyone 18 and like, under 30. I hope this is obvious, but I also don’t care if you have interests or kinks that I haven’t mentioned. I don’t care if you have tattoos, I don’t care if you’re a furry or if you have a weird fashion sense or if you like feet, as long as you think you’d get along with me I’m game!

I will also note that I really like where I live and for a variety of reasons I can’t see myself moving too far, so if that’s a dealbreaker for you I understand. I don’t mind long-distance though (at least for a while) and I like to take relationships at a pace we’re both comfortable with, so any sort of discussion about meeting up or moving would happen after a while, at the very least after we’d gotten to know each other and become comfortable with each other. Ditto for pictures; I definitely don’t want to sext or anything, but before we get too serious I’d want some SFW live pictures for verification of course (again, one we got to know each other).