I’m glad you’re taking a moment to read this posting. If you’re interested in what I am discussing/looking for I encourage you to respond and begin a discussion with me. I value getting to know people in person, but I also value the time prior to meeting in person where we can ask each other questions and gauge our interest before meeting.

I’m 36, and I live in south central Denver near DU and University Blvd. I work from home as well. Ideally, I’d like to meet someone who lives within 20 minutes of my location, but I am open to a greater radius, maybe as much as 30 mins apart. Physically, I’m 5’10” tall with an athletic build and frame. I have thick brown hair and brown eyes. My job is serious, and I am a very responsible person. Yet, I don’t take myself too seriously; I’m very playful and even goofy at times. I enjoy live music, sports, various mountain activities, just straight up relaxing, and spending time with friends and family. I like biking around town, playing yard games, and even board games like Catan with friends. The last book I read was She Comes First by Ian Kerner, and the tv shows I’m watching right now for chillin are Suits and Yellowstone.

I have known for many years that I greatly appreciate strong, badass women who are confident and assertive with peers, friends, etc. because I am also confident and assertive. In general, I appreciate people who communicate effectively and are well spoken. After college I was living in Atlanta, about 25 years old at the time, and I had my first experience in a D/s relationship. It was in that first relationship that I realized the value of a D/s relationship and the healthy benefits for both the Dominant individual and the submissive one. I realized that healthy submission is an elected submission, decided upon by the submissive, and that healthy dominance was awarded by the submissive. I realized that truly Dominant people are not simply seizing power or overwhelming their submissive. They are gentle, caring, and protective, and they wait patiently for the submissive to choose submission. The choice and the cognitive decision to submit is what makes submission so special and so valuable.

I am in pursuit of that kind of submission, the only kind that matters. Therefore, I do not want to pursue the spineless, those who feel they need some sort of dominant guidance to simply be. Instead, I want the confident and assertive who do not need dominant guidance but, instead, want relief from being so decisive and dominant themselves. I want one who wants to submit in her personal romantic relationship bc it offers her more and gives us an elevated experience, not because she feels she needs it to cope/get by. Therefore, I hope to find a woman with goals and dreams, passions and interests of her own, and direction. I would ultimately like to find someone I’m compatible with in the long run.