I am back at this again. I was seeing someone and in the end we ended things mutually. I've learned some things, and I think it is important to put some important things there.

• Communication is HUGE. If you have difficulties communicating, I am not a fit for you.

• Monogamy is what I want. No exceptions. I've done polyamory in the past but I want *MY* person. I want to find my *Forever*

• Relationships have to be two people working together. Not just saying that you will do what it takes, but actually letting your actions speak for you.

That said, I've posted a ton over the past year plus, so feel free to can click my profile and read a much longer post from me. I've been at this for some time and looking for my Forever Love. I am a Hopeless Romantic that wants honesty, trust, affection, love, and communication. I am a Daddy Dom but I can versatile in that I can lean more towards Soft or Pleasure Dom depending upon my partner. Having a dynamic is important, but my main focus is on compatibility and finding the right person. My love languages include physical touch, words, and quality time. I love to be in love, and will dote over my partner. You will know how much you are loved, and I will fight for our relationship to the very end. Together, we will get through anything. I want to be married, that is important to me. Monogamy Only. I am open to having kids, but it is not a requirement. If you are located outside of the U.S., I am sorry but it simply will not work. Long distance is hard enough. I was previously engaged to someone outside of the U.S. and in the end the process is quite costly, takes a lot of time, and I am not sure if I would have any issues as I filed for a K1 once before.

I am NOT perfect. I have flaws. I love like a teenager, and to some that might be silly. I do not feel my age, at all. I stay up all night playing video games or just watching Teen Love movies like Everything, Everything or The Sun is Also a Star. I will watch one of those movies and get lost... it is one of the ways I am able to connect and feel love. I have a history, and even at 38 I am not even sure if I have had what you might call a "good" relationship. I was unhappily married and basically told that I was silly for wanting to cuddle and make out often. I was engaged for three years until she cheated on me and I found out who she really was. I am not looking for sympathy, but showing that I am looking for something real and serious. I've wanted to be loved since I was a teenager, and I am still waiting for that in my life. I am not here to play games. I am not someone that would cheat on their partner. I am honest, loyal, and transparent; sometimes to a fault. I will sometimes be too blunt but I do not want things to be confused. I am serious about finding love and it building up to a marriage. I am not looking for something casual. And if you are not serious about communicating and actually getting to know each other, it is not going to work. I have a goal in mind, and that is to find love. I've wasted enough time with people that are not serious about things.

Interested? Check out my other posts. Or message me. Let's talk and see if we fit. If you are looking your person, I could be him. You never know!

This is VERY important. I am a bigger guy. I will be happy to show you a picture of me. Does it impact my life? Some. Yes. I do drive. I do get around. But I am a work in progress. I've lost some weight, and I am working every day to get healthier and to lose more weight. If you have ANY issue with someone that is overweight or feel that you would not be attracted to someone overweight, there is no need to message me. I won't be your type. I would rather not waste your time. I've been big my entire life and it is a struggle, but that does not make me any less of a partner. If anything, it allows me the ability to know that while my partner may have flaws that they are not defined by them.

Quick Facts About Me:

38 | Male | Cleveland, Ohio | Hopeless Romantic

Pro-LGBTQ . | Liberal | Open Minded

Geeky | Bigger Guy | Affectionate

5 foot 9 inches | Blue eyes | Dark Brown Hair though I dye it all of the time (it is bleached/purple at the moment)