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Well, where do I begin? It's never a piece of cake when you're supposed to put yourself out there. You're a person that's made up of so many memories and experiences. How do you put all that in a few words? Nevertheless we have to try if we are to make our way in this world. So I'll try.

Who I am: 33 years old. Have my life together. Love what I do, have a couple of hobbies. I love to cook. And I love to eat. Fun fact about me: I can bend my thumb all the way back to my arm. So you know I am flexible, but more on that later. I love lifting weights and going on the occasional run. And I love reading.I have been told that I hold decent conversations

Who I am in the bedroom: Labels are just labels in my opinion. They’re a great starting point but what we want to be should only be decided by us. Having said that, I am what they call traditionally a D type. I have often thought about what it would like to be on the other side of the slash, but that’s a conversation for a different day. I love dirty talk. Talking about the hundred different ways we’re gonna fuck each other’s brains will never get old. If nothing, you’ll find that your dirty talking desires will be thoroughly satiated. I love control. Taking it, owning it, using it for the betterment of our dynamic and relationship. I’ll be happy to take as much control as you would like to relinquish. I have a fair bit of experience in kink and been around the proverbial kinky block so to speak. If you can think of it, I have most probably done it or parts of it. And I have loved every bit. I could draw up a kink list, but we could just talk about it.

What I offer: I am someone that values consent, communication (over communication even) and base my interactions over a foundation of mutual respect from and towards both the sides. Someone that can talk to you about every topic under the sun but also tap that part of your psyche that will make you go wild. Someone to share your deep desires and help enact them. Someone that understands that submission (and Dominance and other flavors of kink for that matter) are mentally and emotionally exhaustive. And therefore values it. Someone that believes that though BDSM might not be romantic initially per se, but it can be that and much more intense and deep and fulfilling. I believe that a relationship like this can empower us, make us confident in who we are and in some ways liberate us. You’ll find that I would reply to you reasonably and inform you in advance of any periods in which I won't be able to talk.

What I am looking for: Someone that shares my values, doesn’t take themselves all too seriously. Someone to share the nice and dirty things in life. The details of the kinky things can be worked out, but at the end of the day I’m just looking for decent company on this journey.